i mean its not like he's explicitly confessing his love for you, friends chat like that, don't overthink it. Keep being neutral as in how you were and treat him like you'd treat any other friend. Its not like he asked your friend to be jealous of him giving attention to you, your friend shouldn't overthink it either, if she likes him so much to the point she gets jealous of him treating you like how normal good friends would then she should just confess her feelings to him. I don't think you're acting in any way that breaks the sis code.
yeah, she didn't tell it to me directly since she didn't think much of it and its been great:) My only prob is that no matter how much I say that his actions are that of a friend, me and my friends (also some classmates) think that I'm the one closest to him thru phyxical contact and everything. Atleast distancing myselfhelped cuz we don't talk as much but he himself tole me ''Idk what to talk to you about anymore since you don't relapse about him anymore" like wdym, you don't need to talk to me if its gon be like that(I overthink small actions so easily which makes the only one who suffers)
Even if you're the closest, you're still friends as long as he doesn't act too clingy. I kinda get what he said cause he is putting in effort in your friendship and you're distancing yourself but at the same time you aren't obliged to reciprocate someone's initiations so don't worry much about it, you do you. Also it's easy to overthink such small actions, the key is to clear your feelings and prioritizing it, if you feel like he's being too much then distance yourself, do whatever that makes you feel comfortable in the friendship.
Yup distance would be my choice, I'm close to other guys but they aren't as clingy or atleast like him, they chat me when they need me and I do the same. I just hope he understands
Wishing you the best!! <33
So uh we had this transferee(guy) and we weren't that close until we became seatmates, he was like another friends and that's it. When our seating got arranged again and I was a little far from him, it didn't matter much to me nut he sometimes goes to my seat just randomly. We also started chatting like a month or 2 months ago, it was usually short but now he chats me randomly like 9 or 10pm (my mother confiscates my phone at this time) when he sees I'm online. I sometimes ignore him or just avoid him since one of my bsf likes him so I try to distance myself a little bit since I heard she was tiny bit jealous and I respected that and gave me and him some boundaries. Yet up until now he continues to chat me randomly or just pat my head(neutral feeling about this). Idk what to do about this cause I feel uncomfy knowing my girl is jealous and this guy continous to do random things to me, I'm chill with him and wouldn't want to break my friendship with also. WTF SHOULD I DO.......