The Skylar hate??

i mostly agree but normalizing violence is crazy

normalizing in what way? am i supposed to just cry over it, lock myself in my room for being manipulated the 2nd time?

never said ur supposed to do. being upset and angry is completely valid, but not being able to control urself to the point of needing to beat up this person is not completely normal either. violence should not be the first thing on ur mind

Of course it's not, it's the nth thing after thinking about the memories we shared and how fake it has been for they manipulated me. All the betrayal and self-doubt trickles uncontrollably towards your thoughts. You can't even stop them. People are not perfect, there is no textbook on how you would react when something happens to you. Normalizing violence is normalizing it in any petty context.

Welcome to team " anti-skyrus"

They could just not work, some people dreams of two broken people healing each other and together, but in reality is a very tough sell. It's easier to recover by yourself with the support of your family & friends rather than a romantic partner. There's more to life than love.

No that’s such an insane take no matter how angry you are you should never hit anyone. It’s been shown that Skylar has anger issues, the first thing he does is throw hands. I’m not excusing cirrus ofc, but I’m not excusing Skylar either.

He needs to learn to control his anger. Ofc ppl aren’t perfect and litc literally depicts that so why are you normalizing violence in a “petty” context. Violence shouldn’t be normalize PERIOD. If you wanna talk about how cirrus Is manipulative and his actions have consequences why don’t we also talk about Skyler? He took pictures of his crush without consent. He doesn’t have consequences for that action because cirrus doesn’t want him getting hurt after they got together. He’s also always saying hurtful things when he’s mad, to To probably protect himself and push people who love him away But again we don’t talk about that. We just talk about how cirrus is manipulative and he “deserves” this

I just feel like we shouldn’t be pointing fingers and holding everyone accountable. Not choose who in our opinion is the less shitty one out of them

Of course cirrus was not telling chan-il about the photos because that was what he uses to blackmail skylar with?? Would their relationship even start if he told chan-il about the photos? What do people actually expect skylar to do when he was traumatized, just discovered that he was manipulated and lied to?? Skylar said something hurtful and below the belt, am i saying it's okay? I was not. It's the frustration to people demonizing skylar like he's the perpetrator in all this??

Of course taking picture of someone without consent obsessively is not good, was not that established since the start, the premise of the blackmailing?

In the end, what does people want Skylar's response to that be??

Very true, wished others can see that but their too blinded by wanting to pair them up again just for the sake of a. Generic "happy ending".

Girl what are you talking about? I’m trying to say that cirrus had to deal with his actions of his consequences but Skyler never did. Cirrus lost Everyone and no one defends him or is there for him. While again Skylar doesn’t deal with anything. He punches, literally beat the fuck out of his boyfriend bc His boyfriend mentioned his past trauma, which I don’t think is right, but what his reaction right?

You’re asking how I want him to react? I want him to react a little bit more calmly perhaps LOL. All he does is punch people and say malicious things when he’s angry. I hate that. And it might seem like I’m defending cirrus But really I’m not. I’m glad that he’s facing his consequences.

Cirrus is not minwoo, Skyler constantly projects him onto cirrus tho. Minwoo was violent so Skylar defends himself that way. Also saying How Can you love someone when you never been loved your whole life is insane and so hurtful and so many ways and he could’ve definitely control that kind of reaction but he refuses to.

I want Skyler to think more about his actions to, I think we seen cirrus Finally taking accountability for his actions and moving on, but Skylar has not yet. He also gives up so easily on cirrus. I know that his trauma has definitely made him act the way he does so I sympathize with him, but again that doesn’t excuse his actions. Just felt like you were defending Skylar only. When in honestly, I seen people shit on both of them. But overall, I just think that you shouldn’t think that hitting someone is ever OK in any kind of situation unless it’s to defend yourself.