Well, you gotta still talk at the end of the day, especially, since you two are living together. And like you said, it seems like your sister is not the type to open up first or anytime soon. Maybe you just have to take the initiative for this one because obviously you can't live like that. The last time you have told her about your concern, did she really addressed it? It's better to talk things out again with your sister. Confront her and try to make her understand that you are not comfortable with her bf around (or maybe as often as he stays in your place) If she's really sorry about how you feel, she should act in consideration of your feelings. Maybe it's not between you, maybe it's between your sister and her bf. Why does her bf stays a lot to your place? Is it out of your sister's own will or her bf's decision? Can she say no? If you hadn't, try knowing her reason for letting him stay so that you could come up of a better approach to your sister when telling your concern. I know how awful it feels when you're not talking to someone you are with under the same roof. The inevitable encounter and the awkward turn when you made eye contact (I hope ur not experiencing this) so you better resolve your problem with your sister first before you deal with the things outside. (Ps: don't let her get her way this time! If she say she would talk about it again with him then make sure that SHE WILL! Let her know that THIS IS serious, but try not to be too strong with your approach. Good luck!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
So the story is that my sister and i we currently share the same room cause we are in a rented house and her boyfriend not regularly but sometimes stay over for the night. I'm not really comfortable around people i dont know and her boyfriend and me, we are basically strangers because i don't exactly want to know more about him and whenever he stay over he would sleep in the floor but its in the same room and i hate so I've tried talking to my sister about him for about three times. But even after all that he would stay over so yesterday i texted my sister about it and i was so mad that i told her if he is going to keep on spending the night then i would rather stay seperated with her. She replied and said about how sorry she was and will talk to him about it, but i was still mad because it not the first time I've told her and so i didn't initiate conversation with her the whole time so now we not talking. Do i start the conversation?m(ps: she's someone who would rather keep everything to jer than talk about it) My goodness i hate the atmosphere so muchh