update to ch 78

c0ckd3stroy3r October 11, 2024 7:03 am

okay i’m caught up and im really surprised no one has commented on gu qing and the teacher’s relationship. one, the teacher was already a teacher when she met gu qing who was 12 years old. i do think she is grooming him, i mean calling him out separately? telling him to visit her at night? giving preferential treatment towards him? the author tried to play it off as her just caring for him but then we time skip and gu qing is in love with the teacher who married his brother and got divorced. and the teacher had the nerve to say “he was just playing with me” he is 17? i need you to be so for real right now. it’s downright disgusting and weird and i hate how the author is trying to play it off as older woman x younger man. NO! she knew him since he was a child and groomed him into loving her! didn’t set any boundaries and i fear they will become a pair. i love the art and the story but its just this tiny plot device that disgusts me so much. nonetheless i’ll still finish the manhua but i just think this side plot is fucking disgusting the way the author is trying to romanticize grooming and pedophilia.

moving on the lin and the mc, i think their dynamic is a bit better. lin has regressed multiple times so his mentality is not that of a child so i don’t mind him being the ml. what i do find weird is the mc repeatedly trying to force this mother-son dynamic when we all clearly know they’re going to end up together. if she wasn’t so adamant about him being her child, then this pairing would’ve been perfectly fine. also, while lin was an adult mentally, mc doesnt know he regressed and treated and raised him up as a child, so that little plot device is also kinda weird. actually there are a lot of disturbing pieces including the ogfl and hua. why is this man 27 blushing over a 17 y/o. if the author just loves illegal age gaps and pedophillia lmao. i’m giving this a 3/5, would’ve been a 4/5 if there wasn’t so much pedophillia in the story! art is amazing and the plot was interesting, especially with both the og fl and the mc being reincarnated and friends!

Responses
    Talisara October 12, 2024 9:19 pm

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt this way . It's definitely SUPER weird that there's such large age gaps, if the mc and her friend had been younger people around late teens the plot and setup could've still been perfectly fine. So overall the age gaps just feel unnecessary, and if they really wanted to go that route then the original story characters should've been older and in a college type of school setting.

    c0ckd3stroy3r October 12, 2024 9:32 pm
    I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt this way . It's definitely SUPER weird that there's such large age gaps, if the mc and her friend had been younger people around late teens the plot and setup could've sti... Talisara

    YES i felt insane cus i didn’t see anyone commenting on this like um….this is not okay….

    Kygnis October 13, 2024 1:35 pm

    Agree the main paar is fine for me but that side plot was hella disgusting

    Why am i reading this October 13, 2024 1:50 pm

    I wanna spoil you abt the end but lemme just say that the dynamics gets faaaaar worse at the end

    Lyrisu October 14, 2024 2:55 am

    Personally, it's such a side thing to me that it's negligible and something I can ignore bcos idgaf about gu qing the mc and ml >>>>> whatever the fuck is going on w gu qing

    Aigoo October 14, 2024 5:24 pm
    I wanna spoil you abt the end but lemme just say that the dynamics gets faaaaar worse at the end Why am i reading this

    Do spoil please
    Spoil me
    I don't mind
    I like it
    I just want to know the ending

    Boiers October 20, 2024 12:39 am

    This is such a real take, tbh whenever I see gu qing and the teacher being in the same scene I just immediately skip it. It just ruins the entire manhua for me when I read about them

    Talisara October 20, 2024 3:37 am
    I wanna spoil you abt the end but lemme just say that the dynamics gets faaaaar worse at the end Why am i reading this

    Wait i low-key wanna be spoiled too

    Why am i reading this October 20, 2024 7:07 am
    Wait i low-key wanna be spoiled too Talisara

    Mc goes back to her og world and as you know she's a teacher and it just so happens that the ml is her student (the kid she tried to save) yeah so its a teacher x student
    And then there's mc's friend an purple girl... In the og world she's in high school and the mc's friend is a full grown adult in his mid 20's
    So that's the spoiler for their relationships I guess.
    Everyone has regained memories about what happened inside the book

    Boiers October 20, 2024 10:11 am
    Mc goes back to her og world and as you know she's a teacher and it just so happens that the ml is her student (the kid she tried to save) yeah so its a teacher x studentAnd then there's mc's friend an purple g... Why am i reading this

    Why couldn't the author just make them all college students, the mc being a high school teacher literally has no impact on the story whatsoever. It just makes this manhua an uncomfortable read

    ₊˚. ❝ angee┆˚✧ October 20, 2024 6:10 pm
    Why couldn't the author just make them all college students, the mc being a high school teacher literally has no impact on the story whatsoever. It just makes this manhua an uncomfortable read Boiers

    damn a highschool teacher, if only they were college students it wouldn't be too weird if they dated someone older

    Why am i reading this October 20, 2024 7:51 pm
    Why couldn't the author just make them all college students, the mc being a high school teacher literally has no impact on the story whatsoever. It just makes this manhua an uncomfortable read Boiers

    Righttt but yeah there's some in between information that kinda give excuses? I can't really go into details tho since I can't actually read Mandarin I just use google lense to translate

    Shameless October 27, 2024 10:58 pm

    yeah this story is just one big way to slip in pedo ideologies and fantasies to the masses.

    I really love the concept of being controlled by the plot (like "July Found By Chance"), but this author and artists slip in SO MUCH pedo-ish "humor" in the early chapters. Like, not everything is a joke. I didn't find it funny or cute AT ALL. But I was trying to hang in there because it was recommended to me considering the concept of "controlled by plot"...

    The time skip came at a good time bc I was really wanting to drop. But after reading the spoiler, I'll just go ahead and drop this. It's like they're trying hard to push an agenda, but not full outright. Like they tryna be slick with it and sliiiiiide that ish in as much as they think they can get away with.
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_villainess_refuses_to_court_the_male_lead/uu/to_chapter-6/pg-4/ (Like??? Girl WAT?! I think that was red flag #1)

    I should've dropped it at the scene where Lin pushed Hong Chi off the roof. Then he looked at her with a dark grin and licked the blood off her knee. And at the end of the chapter, the author/artists are like "kyaaaaa, small tongue" / "small tongue (screaming)". LIN'S BODY WAS 12. TWELVE!!!! Fuck you mean you kyaa'ing over small tongues. Child tongues.... grabbing someone's legs and licking and nuzzling in a seductive manner. (oh but tEChNicALlY he's not a lil kid bc he had like umpteen lives and is a regressor.... like I said, they tryna be slick)
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_villainess_refuses_to_court_the_male_lead/uu/to_chapter-8/pg-10/
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_villainess_refuses_to_court_the_male_lead/uu/to_chapter-8/pg-13/

    Anywho, I'm dropping this. Thanks for the spoiler.

    c0ckd3stroy3r October 28, 2024 4:13 am
    yeah this story is just one big way to slip in pedo ideologies and fantasies to the masses. I really love the concept of being controlled by the plot (like "July Found By Chance"), but this author and artists s... Shameless

    you’re so real for this, i’m glad i’m not crazy

    Boiers October 28, 2024 7:45 am
    yeah this story is just one big way to slip in pedo ideologies and fantasies to the masses. I really love the concept of being controlled by the plot (like "July Found By Chance"), but this author and artists s... Shameless

    They fr trying so hard at making this illegal shop sail

    Boiers October 28, 2024 7:46 am
    They fr trying so hard at making this illegal shop sail Boiers

    Ship* I cannot spell for the life of me