But he never told them what the issue is though. Geon just assumes Suo should know. I've been saying from the start for Geon to be honest. Yes he's scared, I get that but before it even got to this point he should have said something. This is someone who he wants to be with, speak up.
Yes he should be honest, I agree with you, if he'd just talked about his past from the start especially from the time when he was caught at the gay bar this wouldn't have happened. But it's been shown many times in his character that Geon is: a coward, and is afraid of confrontation. My biggest issue is Sou trying to get him to speak about something sensitive in a public area because "nobody will care". Additionally I think Geon isn't obligated to tell him, since they've only been dating for such little time, it takes awhile before someone is comfortable enough to talk abt their past, but in this case since he was caught he should've definitely spoken about it with Sou in PRIVATE and not in the middle of the train(? Or airport) station and air his business out.
Huh? If the issue is affecting the relationship then yes, he is absolutely obligated to tell him. So evertime, it comes up Geon pretends like it's no big deal or like nothing is wrong. It not about placing blame on any one person, it's about 2 individuals not talking to each other about a big issue that AFFECTS their relationship early on. Should Suo be able to read it partner yes and know that a public place isn't the best place for a serious conversation. I agree that he shouldn't have pushed him when he said "not here", listening is important.
What irritates me is that ALL THIS could have been avoided. This is literally the most avoidable argument ever. There is no ONE wrong person here, there shouldn't be sides. They should both be adults and stop running and talk. If your past is affecting your future then you are absolutely obligated to tell your partner. If you can't yet, don't get into a relationship with someone because keeping your fears a secret and hoping they "work themselves out" will end the relationship. No matter how much of a coward Geon is and no matter how pushy Suo is. Want to be together? Face your fears, difficult but necessary. We can see how both of them should have handled this better, or avoided it altogether
I see your point and I agree 100%, I believe this situation could've been avoided if instead of having "make-up sex" in the motel they'd just talked about it. If they truly wanted to continue their relationship then they should communicate, though it could be hard for them considering their personalities (especially Geon) I agree that they should just talk it out since they're, as you said, both adults
Why would you even push someone, who you know is not comfortable with their relationship bring public, to air out their business in the public because you feel "if things were private it would go no where"? Sou has an idea of his past and knows that he's hiding something so obviously he will ask, but it's such a shit move to say to do it right then and there because "no one will care" YES THEY WILL.
In a conservative country where homosexual relationships are frowned on (as the Manhwa says) its perfectly understandable Geon would think that way, Sou should understand as well since he was literally bullied for just being fat. And I understand Geon's point since he seems like the type to overthink HEAVILY on the what-ifs, and he does seem to be trying to leave his hook-up past behind, though him avoiding telling Sou the past and suggesting a break up is irratitng, it's within reason.