I can get and won't disagree per say with comments that talk about riftan having the right to be angry and cold to her because she is so inexperienced and it's dangerous. I do think the moment he decides to agree she can come is when the argument should have been over and that's when he gets annoying for me. He doesn't have to treat her super sweet or anything because he is the commander and she is under his command as the magician but treating her like she is so incapable of doing the job she fought to have and not giving the chance with at least some support irks me. She proved so much to those around her she is willing to grow and she can learn to do her job and be good and useful and he because he refuses to see it out of "worry" makes me dislike him since it doesn't seem like he is seeing her as the person she is becoming and trying to be and instead has the image of a frail person who onlys needs support and can't support him. That's not a partnership imo and frankly it makes me feel weird he has such intense feelings about keeping her in a bubble that's safe after she has voiced over and over about wanting to leave. She isn't a child but an adult and that makes me feel weird. She is constantly changing in front of him and he doesn't acknowledge it all, but whatever rant done lol
I can get and won't disagree per say with comments that talk about riftan having the right to be angry and cold to her because she is so inexperienced and it's dangerous. I do think the moment he decides to agree she can come is when the argument should have been over and that's when he gets annoying for me. He doesn't have to treat her super sweet or anything because he is the commander and she is under his command as the magician but treating her like she is so incapable of doing the job she fought to have and not giving the chance with at least some support irks me. She proved so much to those around her she is willing to grow and she can learn to do her job and be good and useful and he because he refuses to see it out of "worry" makes me dislike him since it doesn't seem like he is seeing her as the person she is becoming and trying to be and instead has the image of a frail person who onlys needs support and can't support him. That's not a partnership imo and frankly it makes me feel weird he has such intense feelings about keeping her in a bubble that's safe after she has voiced over and over about wanting to leave. She isn't a child but an adult and that makes me feel weird. She is constantly changing in front of him and he doesn't acknowledge it all, but whatever rant done lol