She's NOT homophobic
She's a college QUEER kid who hadn't discovered her sexual identity yet
She's just dealing with her emotions in her own way
She's wrong, of course
But she's just a kid so cut her some slack
What can a college student do to a thirty something year-old man who's rich and strong? Nothing!
Worst case scenario, she's gonna nag Haebom for a while, and then Haebom gives her a speech and sends her back to Seoul
The first part is still a guess. And no, she’s a damn adult meddling in other grown adults relationships. It’s WEIRD. This isn’t a free pass to let people do shit to other’s relationships like that in order to discover shit and improve themselves.
I'm not saying she has the right to do that
And I'm definitely not saying she's not wrong
I'm just saying she's young and naive. Also she grew up in the countryside of a conservative country. She's making a mistake because she's immature. With a little guidance from some nice grownups around her, she's going to be okay
Yes, if she ever acts on her thoughts, she has to apologize
But y'all need to show some compassion and understanding towards someone who's confused and uneducated
People can still be mad at someone’s intent that could potentially ruin people’s relationships. Being uneducated and confused still doesn’t mean she should be babied and understood. On that logic, that just means anyone can do whatever they want just cause they’re uneducated, and no one should ever be mad. People being mad, shows that there’s consequences and that it’s not okay to do such things, that itself is part of learning. If you keep only showing “compassion and understanding” then people will start to think those actions are okay to do regardless of who it harms, so long as you “understand” at the end of the day.
Even if you don't agree with their relationship, it's really none of your business what they do. You can be homophobic all you want but you can't externalize it and force your views on others because it's what's "normal". If she really respects him, you should also respect his choices