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im sick and tired October 7, 2024 9:53 am

Is it just me, or does it bother anyone else when the uke is referred to as 'wife' instead of the 'husband'? It’s not just in this manga, but in others I’ve read too. idk, it’s just my opinion tho

Responses
    Joud October 7, 2024 1:48 pm

    No wayy i think its cuter since he do the chores and household duties

    lgeb0625 October 7, 2024 2:01 pm

    It bothers the crap out of me too

    toteieo October 7, 2024 6:19 pm
    No wayy i think its cuter since he do the chores and household duties Joud

    your statement doesn't help brother

    Kuze October 7, 2024 6:36 pm

    Male omegas are referred to as wife since theyre called as 'mama' by their kids

    nicknamebulmayauğraşamam October 7, 2024 7:33 pm
    No wayy i think its cuter since he do the chores and household duties Joud

    Stfu please

    nicknamebulmayauğraşamam October 7, 2024 7:35 pm

    Yeah it bothers me a lot too, it feels hella heteronormative

    im sick and tired October 7, 2024 8:26 pm
    Yeah it bothers me a lot too, it feels hella heteronormative nicknamebulmayauğraşamam

    ikkrrrr like they can both be considered husbands, and I think that's much cuter. Personally, I feel like the uke is referred to as 'wife' just because they're more of the submissive type

    Joud October 8, 2024 1:35 am

    Why the cursing?

    GentleRain October 8, 2024 2:19 am
    ikkrrrr like they can both be considered husbands, and I think that's much cuter. Personally, I feel like the uke is referred to as 'wife' just because they're more of the submissive type im sick and tired

    100 percent agreed. Really tired of male character being feminized just because of the roles they play or if they're more submissive, being a bottom, or in this case omega as well, doesn't make guys womanly suddenly. They're still a guy. (unless they prefer to be called more feminine things anyway)

    Nor do chores and such make someone a “wife” and thats unfortunately rooted in misogyny. its like playing into “who's the man and who's the woman of the relationship” instead of acknowledging they're both guys with a loving relationship, he can also be a husband even if they are more “feminine” or “submissive” it feels weird for them to be put into those traditional man and wife gender rolls

    This has always bothered me lol

    toteieo October 8, 2024 3:44 am
    100 percent agreed. Really tired of male character being feminized just because of the roles they play or if they're more submissive, being a bottom, or in this case omega as well, doesn't make guys womanly sud... GentleRain

    exactly. Household responsibilities alone do not define a person as a wife, and being a wife does not imply the sole responsibility of household chores.

    Sac of ramen noodles October 8, 2024 4:48 am

    YES OMG LMAOO I just posted a comment about that and came to see if anyone else thought the same like it’s irritating to me. Like that is husband. I also feel the same way about kids calling them mama like no that is dada. Both of them can be dada like omg

    nicknamebulmayauğraşamam October 9, 2024 4:07 pm
    Why the cursing? Joud

    Your comment felt a bit misogynistic to me and i was already feeling enraged about the femicides in my country so i took my anger out on you i'm sorry