No no no no If you always feel compared to your partner and feeling miserable about it, then it absolutely has everything to do with being confident. Just because you yourself don't see the problem with it, that doesn't mean her feelings regarding that problem is not valid. You're not being comforting at that point. You're just forcing your feelings on her.
No no no no
If you always feel compared to your partner and feeling miserable about it, then it absolutely has everything to do with being confident. Just because you yourself don't see the problem with it, that doesn't mean her feelings regarding that problem is not valid. You're not being comforting at that point. You're just forcing your feelings on her.