He then continues “to tell him its okay” he wants his partner to reveal it so he can say that its not something to worry about which geon clearly is.
His heart is in the right place but he doesnt know how to actually deal with the situation.
Exactly, like, I know he has good intentions, it’s just that he’s trying to rush things.
Exactly and forcing him to talk it out in public ....ma gosh the disrespect....the seme is selfish he himself had a fair share of trauma from his past and forcing the uke out of his comfort zone was a cheap move ಠ_ಠ
ML: “Should I force him to reveal his past …”
Sir would you like it if he forced you to recount your trauma? I get that you got your own issues but disrespecting his boundaries is *not* the way to keep your relationship going.