The ML’s obliviousness to society aside. I’d give ML a little break cuz it started of with a lie? Things trickle down if you start off dishonest. It’s not just about his past sex life but about how he’s lied about random things in the beginning, specifically not clarifying things. And it made himself conceal things even more to keep up with it. And when you’ve lied while sure you’re trying to tell the truth slowly, and it takes time because it’s a shitty time for you. But the other person doesn’t know that, they just think you’re deliberately hiding things not out of good intent. PLUS it goes to waste when the other person is learning about you from other people. At this point it’s obvious that ML cares more about the relationship at hand, and it made him short sided. While the MC is more focused on society to clearly see that his bf is not society.
The ML’s obliviousness to society aside. I’d give ML a little break cuz it started of with a lie? Things trickle down if you start off dishonest. It’s not just about his past sex life but about how he’s lied about random things in the beginning, specifically not clarifying things. And it made himself conceal things even more to keep up with it. And when you’ve lied while sure you’re trying to tell the truth slowly, and it takes time because it’s a shitty time for you. But the other person doesn’t know that, they just think you’re deliberately hiding things not out of good intent. PLUS it goes to waste when the other person is learning about you from other people. At this point it’s obvious that ML cares more about the relationship at hand, and it made him short sided. While the MC is more focused on society to clearly see that his bf is not society.