The friend drama is stupid

Wheeze October 5, 2024 1:34 pm

The friend drama is stupid im sorry, why are they both acting like children over hajins and why is he getting all the blame? He set up clear boundaries with the dude and is saying no and French dude isn’t respecting that but also he’s allowed to have friends I hate the stupid bottom isn’t allowed friends trope bc the top is jealous like geonwoo has friends why is he the only one allowed to? No irl rational person would be upset over this!it makes sense to be upset over over him lying bc yeah that’s upsetting and even though I understand hajins pov, I can understand geonwoos as well. But now he sounds like a hypocrite bc he said he’ll see him at the bakery but all of a sudden is going on a trip he didn’t tell him about

Responses
    SpooPy - Kemono October 5, 2024 2:28 pm

    I don’t think he’s wrong to be jealous cuz both Hajin and Geonwoo know that French guy is hitting on Hajin it’d be different if it was just a regular friend completely platonic (on both sides) but it’s not. Hajin also only said that he has someone that he likes and personally if I was in a relationship with someone and they didn’t specify it was with me when I was there… I’d feel odd about it

    Arin Kang October 5, 2024 6:50 pm
    I don’t think he’s wrong to be jealous cuz both Hajin and Geonwoo know that French guy is hitting on Hajin it’d be different if it was just a regular friend completely platonic (on both sides) but it’s ... SpooPy - Kemono

    yessss so true ╥﹏╥

    graham crackers October 5, 2024 9:16 pm

    i dont think u understand how relationships work…

    Wheeze October 6, 2024 1:45 am
    I don’t think he’s wrong to be jealous cuz both Hajin and Geonwoo know that French guy is hitting on Hajin it’d be different if it was just a regular friend completely platonic (on both sides) but it’s ... SpooPy - Kemono

    (I apologize for my yapping) but yes your right he absolutely has a right! I think hajin should figure out what he wants but also I understand bc a lot of queer people just don’t like to be out with it, I have had a fair share of people I’ve dated who didn’t want to be out to everyone we knew I would have to introduce them as a gender they weren’t actually but I still stand that not everything is hajins fault like these comments are making it out to be! Hajin is setting boundaries with the French dude as he literally dodged him trying to kiss him and said “if you continue to do that I won’t be your friend anymore” it’s a complicated situation bc again that’s his childhood friend and I don’t think he should have to end their relationship over a crush, if he should ever end their relationship it should be because French dude is overstepping boundaries and not giving up.. my problem wasn’t more with the characters but with the trope bc jealousy is overused a lot as climax’s in bls and it’s always bc the bottom has a overstepping friend that the top goes all alpha about

    Wheeze October 6, 2024 1:49 am
    i dont think u understand how relationships work… graham crackers

    What don’t I understand about relationships? Jealousy is not a healthy thing and you should not be upset at your partner for having friends even if the friend is overstepping and your partner is trying to make everyone in the situation happy without making themselves uncomfortable also my problem was more about the overused bl trope of top gets jealous of bottom having friends and making that a climax of a story (=・ω・=)