how is he going to say he wants to be the dom's only partner but then has another partner ...

i have no hobbies :( October 5, 2024 11:28 am

how is he going to say he wants to be the dom's only partner but then has another partner himself???AND KEEPING IT A SECRET?!? yea i get he was trying to be helpful or whatever but idk kinda hate him for that...

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    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 11:39 am

    If it's any help:
    People tend to justify their actions as more circumstantial whereas others' as the result of their desire or personality
    For ex if you were late you'd be aware of that train that never showed up, if someone else is late you'd think they were sloppy with time.

    I think the same is happening with zen, it is difficult to think of oneself as the root of the problem via our actions (but easier to just stick a label on our head that we're the problem period, so it's easier to get influenced by the authority to do certain things since they'd know better and you finally aren't acting to your own accordance thus maybe it'll correct some of the problems you caused)

    Believe it or not this type of ironic behaviour is way waaaay far too common

    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 11:42 am

    I am more interested by the fact that you believe (in my perception) Zen to be 100% in control of his actions

    Do you believe that often in life?
    Do you always feel in control or do you resent the lack of it and overcompensate?

    i have no hobbies :( October 5, 2024 11:48 am

    girl it's just a FICTIONAL story and that's just my opinion...i don't need you to rant about it to me plus why are you so concerned with how i handle my life? maybe focus on your own instead of questioning mine.

    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 12:03 pm
    girl it's just a FICTIONAL story and that's just my opinion...i don't need you to rant about it to me plus why are you so concerned with how i handle my life? maybe focus on your own instead of questioning mine... i have no hobbies :(

    I just opened a conversation... Thought it was interesting, in the abstract, your opinions and experiences etc
    I do it a lot about mine so never believe it to be problematic, maybe nosy

    But to answer your question:
    I think you're too ragey and I am curious to find out why and if my guess is correct

    i have no hobbies :( October 5, 2024 12:22 pm

    idk what you want, all i did was post an opinion. if you were just trying to start a conversation, your first response was fine, or you could've posted your own comment like a normal person. but questioning my life is what made it 'too ragey'. if you wanted to discuss opinions, stick to the story instead of trying to analyze me. there’s no need for you to be curious about me—i’m just not interested in your psychoanalysis. maybe take that energy elsewhere, because honestly, it seems like you need a hobby.

    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 3:56 pm
    idk what you want, all i did was post an opinion. if you were just trying to start a conversation, your first response was fine, or you could've posted your own comment like a normal person. but questioning my ... i have no hobbies :(

    Alright, let's reword my second comment and stick to the story (believe it or not, I still also would like to talk about it), how would you describe Zen's action to make everyone hate him as much as you do right now?

    I will take it into account, thanks for telling me you're not interested in the psychoanalysis of yourself

    Unfortunately I have a feeling that analysing the fictional characters would still leave you suspicious of me so feel free to express any further displeasure

    i have no hobbies :( October 5, 2024 11:18 pm

    idk why you’re taking it so seriously, but i already said i’m not interested in the extra analysis. maybe find someone who actually cares to keep this conversation going. i’m done with it, and honestly, you might want to take a hint before you embarrass yourself further.

    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 11:37 pm
    idk why you’re taking it so seriously, but i already said i’m not interested in the extra analysis. maybe find someone who actually cares to keep this conversation going. i’m done with it, and honestly, y... i have no hobbies :(

    I have a habit of getting attached to pitiful things and I have a disproportionate sense of patience, trust me, with these two things embarrassment is the least of my worries in life

    Plus I didn't find someone else as angry to have a contrasting opinion with

    Fist_of_Petals October 5, 2024 11:45 pm
    idk why you’re taking it so seriously, but i already said i’m not interested in the extra analysis. maybe find someone who actually cares to keep this conversation going. i’m done with it, and honestly, y... i have no hobbies :(

    Actually this interaction has been quite fruitful... The back and forth made me curious enough to check your account and from there I got the drive for the raws
    Would you also be offended if I expressed my gratitude? Perhaps it's embarrassing for you, I wonder...

    i have no hobbies :( October 6, 2024 1:29 am

    girl, if you’ve got that much time to dig through my account, you seriously need to get a life—obsessing over strangers online is pathetic and not doing you any favors. i’m not offended; it’s honestly sad how much energy you’re wasting on this. good luck with that ‘disproportionate patience,’ but maybe try applying it to something that actually matters. i have way better things to do than entertain your nonsense, so find someone else to psychoanalyze or at least someone who actually cares.