If it's any help:
People tend to justify their actions as more circumstantial whereas others' as the result of their desire or personality
For ex if you were late you'd be aware of that train that never showed up, if someone else is late you'd think they were sloppy with time.
I think the same is happening with zen, it is difficult to think of oneself as the root of the problem via our actions (but easier to just stick a label on our head that we're the problem period, so it's easier to get influenced by the authority to do certain things since they'd know better and you finally aren't acting to your own accordance thus maybe it'll correct some of the problems you caused)
Believe it or not this type of ironic behaviour is way waaaay far too common
idk what you want, all i did was post an opinion. if you were just trying to start a conversation, your first response was fine, or you could've posted your own comment like a normal person. but questioning my life is what made it 'too ragey'. if you wanted to discuss opinions, stick to the story instead of trying to analyze me. there’s no need for you to be curious about me—i’m just not interested in your psychoanalysis. maybe take that energy elsewhere, because honestly, it seems like you need a hobby.
Alright, let's reword my second comment and stick to the story (believe it or not, I still also would like to talk about it), how would you describe Zen's action to make everyone hate him as much as you do right now?
I will take it into account, thanks for telling me you're not interested in the psychoanalysis of yourself
Unfortunately I have a feeling that analysing the fictional characters would still leave you suspicious of me so feel free to express any further displeasure
girl, if you’ve got that much time to dig through my account, you seriously need to get a life—obsessing over strangers online is pathetic and not doing you any favors. i’m not offended; it’s honestly sad how much energy you’re wasting on this. good luck with that ‘disproportionate patience,’ but maybe try applying it to something that actually matters. i have way better things to do than entertain your nonsense, so find someone else to psychoanalyze or at least someone who actually cares.
how is he going to say he wants to be the dom's only partner but then has another partner himself???AND KEEPING IT A SECRET?!? yea i get he was trying to be helpful or whatever but idk kinda hate him for that...