I actually agree with you. It was shown that the OG Agnes was kinda brat and that's why everyone was shocked with her change. I mean, it's not that I like Raymund but his mother died. Even Kylo don't like the OG Agnes.
frfr people were blinded by their hatred towards raymond. sure, og agnes was acting like that because she’s lonely (and maybe because she also have attachment issues). but if I was raymond, i’d be angry too (but not justifying his actions, really). both of them have their own struggles so just because agnes is the main character doesn’t mean we can just overlook other characters’ situation just because they have beef with mc…
it's reasonable to hate Raymond but truth be told, it's also reasonable for Raymond to hate the og agnes. if i have someone as obsessed as her with me, that'll be really difficult. but I am not saying Raymond should be pardoned or anything. I was just pointing out the things that was overlooked by other readers out there... i hope i explained it correctly｡:ﾟ(;´∩`;)ﾟ:｡