I agree somewhat cause their romantic sub-dom relationship but I where you are coming from since they didn't start off like that and both of them clearly want more in the relationship I love ur username btw
Okay you know nothing about bdsm lmfao You don't have to have a relationship to have a dynamic with someone, but things like worrying about your partner and letting them sleep over us absolutely involved. What bad fake bdsm are you pretending you know about? "People romanticize it" spoken like a true boring ass vanilla who saw 50 shades of gray.
I don’t know what BDSM relationships you’ve been involved in but they don’t sound healthy at all…
Even with a nonrelationship continuous DS dynamics caring for your partner and letting them sleep over is rather common. Especially depending on the severity of the sessions.
Aftercare and wound care are definitely part of the responsibility of a dom if the sub is a self destructive newbie like this. The doms can also have hard limits and boundaries, and if enabling a sub’s destructive behavior is something they’re not willing to participate in, then it’s within their boundaries to ensure proper aftercare and wound care or choose opt out of the involvement if they deem the sub to be too reckless and self destructive (and vice versa ofc, subs hold the power in the dynamic but ppl tend to forget that doms also have boundaries and their consent is just as needed) So the wound care bit is well within ML’s rights. That is not to say that he doesn’t do toxic shit and cross boundaries. Just that wound care and allowing his partner to sleep over aren’t one of them. Especially since the sub in this scenario hasn’t protested against it or brought it up.
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You dont have to be mean over a topic. The true is that small things like letting someone sleep over and be that worried would make so.eone think that is love and they can change the relationship. You the one speaking like you only watched 50shades and now expect someone to be all over the moon for you when there was supposed to only exist a dom/sub relationship
Child, when you get called out, it's pathetic to attempt "no I" LOL Stay painfully ignorant and by all means keep looking utterly stupid in front of everyone by making these sort of comments Two people have told you that you don't know what bdsm is and you cry at me lol
I’m going to try to say this as nicely as possible. You don’t have to love or even like someone to treat them with basic human decency and respect. Any relationship without mutual consent, respect, and care is simply abusive. If someone assumes you love them because you’re treating them decently within established boundaries, they’re simply delusional. Likewise not liking someone isn’t an excuse to treat them like they’re invisible/ their comfort doesn’t matter, that is abuse and disrespectful.
Even amongst casual f buddies/ fwb (yall tend to forget the friends part) it’s bad manners to kick ur partner out immediately after nutting. It’s basic human decency to care about other humans
In BDSM there is a contractual relationship between both parties but people romanticize it so much that they don't even realize that what is happening in this BL is no longer BDSM from the moment the Dom started to worry so much, letting spend the night together, going to dinners or having any information about each other... that doesn't happen, because it's a big step towards having romantic feelings involved. This Manhwa, in my opinion, is quite romantic and adorable, both characters have issues to resolve and big red flags but overall, I'm loving it. I read all 39 chapters today