bro if yiyoung goes to pick him up it really shows he has no respect for kang or his relat...

raine October 3, 2024 7:31 am

bro if yiyoung goes to pick him up it really shows he has no respect for kang or his relationship.

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    Samsamson October 3, 2024 8:04 am

    Yes and equally no. If someone calls and asks for a pickup, especially someone from another country, it’s only right to pick them up. They can be in a dangerous situation, scared or feeling vulnerable. So I wouldn’t automatically assume Yiyoung is showing no respect to Kang or his relationship, without hearing why someone is asking for a pickup.

    Just as we shouldn’t automatically assume Kang was a complete and total jerk when he did the dirty with Yiyoung. Yiyoung loved it, so nothing wrong happened. It didn’t seem consensual when it happened, but apparently it was. If Yiyoung thought negatively about it, then we’d be up in arms against Kang.

    ….. October 3, 2024 8:34 am
    Yes and equally no. If someone calls and asks for a pickup, especially someone from another country, it’s only right to pick them up. They can be in a dangerous situation, scared or feeling vulnerable. So I w... Samsamson

    Yea no. The person can call anyone else the end.

    Lilywhite44 October 3, 2024 9:00 am
    Yea no. The person can call anyone else the end. …..

    He is supposed to be in Korea after years of of not being back and he pretends to be drunk and yiyoung hears others people voices and thinks he's been kidnapped but sure I guess wanting to help a food friend of ur bfs is disrespectful ....

    pennyinheaven October 3, 2024 9:24 am

    Jeez chill. He is not an ex boyfriend enough to say it's disrespectful to help a friend.

    Gray October 3, 2024 9:38 am
    Yes and equally no. If someone calls and asks for a pickup, especially someone from another country, it’s only right to pick them up. They can be in a dangerous situation, scared or feeling vulnerable. So I w... Samsamson

    Thank you for speaking up what's on my mind

    pennyinheaven October 3, 2024 9:59 am

    Spoiler because there is so much assumption
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    Ahn DID call Kang before going. But clumsy Ahn dropped/forgot his phone leaving Kang on the call. But I think Kang already got the gist and went to Dohyun(?)
    Dohyun and Kang got into a fight and Ahn revealed Dohyun likes Kang.

    raine October 3, 2024 7:58 pm
    Jeez chill. He is not an ex boyfriend enough to say it's disrespectful to help a friend. pennyinheaven

    y'all are so fucking weird. if a man made multiple moves on me when he knows im in a relationship i am not going out of my way to be friends with him, y'all no respect.

    raine October 3, 2024 7:58 pm
    y'all are so fucking weird. if a man made multiple moves on me when he knows im in a relationship i am not going out of my way to be friends with him, y'all no respect. raine

    have no respect*

    Samsamson October 3, 2024 11:06 pm

    It’s not a friend issue. It’s someone asking to be picked up.

    Kang told his boyfriend, to his face, they aren’t going to last and that Yiyoung will date more amazing people in the future. Kang believes their relationship to fail. Respect? That’s the level of respect being dealt.

    (Why would you bother dating someone if you don’t want them to be endgame? Because Kang is just going through the motions at this point.)

    Flawed people with flawed thoughts and actions, it doesn’t make sense. It never does.

    pennyinheaven October 4, 2024 12:12 am
    y'all are so fucking weird. if a man made multiple moves on me when he knows im in a relationship i am not going out of my way to be friends with him, y'all no respect. raine

    I had a skim through to check. Ahn did say he was on a whim so he was not taken seriously. BUT EVEN then, the guy was asking for help - a guy who has not been in Korea for so long, does not have other friends to call, and is his boyfriend's friend AND major shareholder/investor of their company. Ahn genuinely thought the guy was in danger. Ahn told Kang where he was going.

    If you are not confident with your relationship and will accommodate flirting with the other guy, then yeah that is disrespectful. Otherwise, it is not. Especially when going out of genuine concern.

    ….. October 4, 2024 12:36 pm
    He is supposed to be in Korea after years of of not being back and he pretends to be drunk and yiyoung hears others people voices and thinks he's been kidnapped but sure I guess wanting to help a food friend of... Lilywhite44

    He can call Kang you know his actual friend of YEARS I stand by what I said.. if someone you know has interest in you and you go to help them while they’re drunk and you have a partner THATS WEIRD hope it happens to all of you defending it we will see yalls opinions then