J.J. what the fuck? I understand it's not easy to move on from a breakup, much less from someone you've grown to care and love for five whole years. It's five years of feelings you're not supposed to process within a few months (and yes, that's why a lot of people go back with their exes even though either them or their ex were a pos).
You wanted Leo to realise he messed up and have a him give a genuine apology. But the fuck is you with "instincts"? Was your dick the one making the decisions here? Was it your dick keeping you from communicating shit to Leo even though we know he might've ignored you cuz let's be real he's an idiot? Was your dick the one who thought it was a good idea to force yourself onto Leo when he was making the offer of being fuck-buddies???
Now you're just playing with him man. Disgusting. Don't give him and yourself false hopes that your relationship can go to what it was before. Nuh uh. It's strained because of the two of you. It won't go back to the happy memories of you never saying shit that made you uncomfortable or clearly stating boundaries to him (like being more stern in telling Leo he didn't like being filmed or have his face uploaded on Leo's insta, or even just having a time off as a couple) and Leo completely disregarding your wishes, being an egotistical idiot and a narcissist.
I can see already that with the heat of the moment, J.J. and Leo will sleep together, Leo will think everything is okay or at least that J.J. won't go away... Aaaaahhhhhhh fucking hell. Don't think with your dicks, think with your brains!!!
Both aren't good match for eachother as much as this fact will hurt them.
J.J. what the fuck? I understand it's not easy to move on from a breakup, much less from someone you've grown to care and love for five whole years. It's five years of feelings you're not supposed to process within a few months (and yes, that's why a lot of people go back with their exes even though either them or their ex were a pos).
You wanted Leo to realise he messed up and have a him give a genuine apology. But the fuck is you with "instincts"? Was your dick the one making the decisions here? Was it your dick keeping you from communicating shit to Leo even though we know he might've ignored you cuz let's be real he's an idiot? Was your dick the one who thought it was a good idea to force yourself onto Leo when he was making the offer of being fuck-buddies???
Now you're just playing with him man. Disgusting. Don't give him and yourself false hopes that your relationship can go to what it was before. Nuh uh. It's strained because of the two of you. It won't go back to the happy memories of you never saying shit that made you uncomfortable or clearly stating boundaries to him (like being more stern in telling Leo he didn't like being filmed or have his face uploaded on Leo's insta, or even just having a time off as a couple) and Leo completely disregarding your wishes, being an egotistical idiot and a narcissist.
I can see already that with the heat of the moment, J.J. and Leo will sleep together, Leo will think everything is okay or at least that J.J. won't go away... Aaaaahhhhhhh fucking hell. Don't think with your dicks, think with your brains!!!
Both aren't good match for eachother as much as this fact will hurt them.