Except a therapist is trained in dealing with trauma, does it with the person's consent and -- as you said -- in a safe setting. None of that applies to the current situation. Jiho has no expertise in counseling or trauma, he acted on his own without consent, and basically ambushed Inwoo with his trauma. That's super harmful. It doesn't matter what his intentions were. Well-meaning people can be incredibly destructive.
That is your opinion. Just like the statement I made before is mine. I won't change my mind on it. And I am not going to try and change yours.
Have a wonderful day.
In my opinion, Inwoo is out of line. As someone with a mental disorder,(and that what this man has) If you start to rapidly deteriorate, the ones you love and that love you are going to do whatever they think is necessary to help you. I personally believe Inwoo should have been committed. He is on a suicide mission through starvation. And gaslighted the hell out of Miho, for blaming him for trying to help fix it. He want him to understand him. He's not going to, he loves him, he wants him healthy.
One of the most common and effective ways to treat a trauma, is to face it. Not run from it, and that is what Inwoo is doing. Time and time again, actual therapist who do their jobs and do it well(not the quacks) will have the patient face their trauma, not relive it, but face it. If it's your dad or mom that caused your trauma, they will put you in a setting where you can talk to them, safely. And that is what Jiho did. Even not know that is what he should do.
And all of yall blaming that poor guy jiho, is what's wrong. Yall romanticizing mental illness and not holding them accountable for their action. Some blaming the person who is trying to help him. And hold the one accountable.
I say this with the experience of my life, my parents held me accountable for every episode I had, I was a lot worse then just not eating and wasting a way, I had full blown psychosis it. I would randomly attack people in fear or in rage. I couldn't control. I was held accountable for it. You know what, I don't have those episodes much, or if I do I have them in safe location and I know to call for help. And to seek the closest medical center.
I never blame anyone else for my triggers.