serious question

Minnie September 29, 2024 1:05 pm

would it still be considered grooming if the older person has no intention of romantically loving the younger one? its just that the younger one is adamantly in love with the older one and the older one keeps on rejecting them before deciding to just ultimately accepting the affection of the younger one

Responses
    Water_lily September 29, 2024 3:09 pm

    In my opinion, if they keep allowing the younger one to act like that when together ..then older one already has another form of love for them. Adamant Younger one is just going to mould that love in a romantic way

    Just my thoughts, i am no expert

    darkprincess32 September 30, 2024 12:44 am

    He's screwed either way. Abandon the child you raised so they don't stray to you, or stay fighting him off tooth and nail even tho he'll overpower you and emotionally mad dog you into giving in because your loyalty is too deep. I'm gonna say "not the asshole" for this one.

    darkprincess32 September 30, 2024 12:48 am
    In my opinion, if they keep allowing the younger one to act like that when together ..then older one already has another form of love for them. Adamant Younger one is just going to mould that love in a romantic... Water_lily

    There's a difference between an adamant young one, and this guy with monstrous strength acting on instinct and using the MC's unconditional love, care, and loyalty against him. It's a very unfair power balance. The MC is literally getting taken advantage of. But otherwise, throw guardians who end up with their kids in jail!!!

    croissant September 30, 2024 3:22 am

    I wouldn't think this as grooming cause I feel like he is older than taehyuk even though he is in his young/child version of himself when they met. Yk the dragon thing but ig yeah for some they will think this as grooming cause of their back story and grooming is not good too, I just hope the author put a note or like a hint that I'm right about him being older than taehyuk when they met

    Water_lily September 30, 2024 2:28 pm
    There's a difference between an adamant young one, and this guy with monstrous strength acting on instinct and using the MC's unconditional love, care, and loyalty against him. It's a very unfair power balance.... darkprincess32

    I agree ( ̄∇ ̄")

    KentuckyFriedRice October 1, 2024 6:16 pm

    Nope. Grooming, by definition, is the act of building an emotional connection with a child or minor in order to sexually exploit them later. It's all in the intention.

    Taehyuk took Hyo-un under his care because he couldn't leave the poor creature alone. It was Hyo-un who developed feelings for Taehyuk whuch led him to wholly pursue his guardian. Ofc, being the doting guardian Taehyuk is, he couldn't reject the dragon and eventually caught feelings too.

    Also, let's not forget Hyo-un is a dragon. Human morals and social norms shouldn't even apply to him. If they were both humans, their relationship would be considered taboo. But they arent.