Advice pls

ilovegintoki September 29, 2024 1:30 am

Hi I know this isn’t the place for drama and shit but tbh I have no idea where else to get advice and still b anonymous and none of my irls r on this website so, anyways

Im a girl and have this problem where whenever I’d b friends with a guy wed b good friends for like a month or two months at max and then suddenly they’d start ghosting me and like I’ll literally tell them something like face to face and I’d get ignored which honestly is kinda fucked up
Does anyone know why that might be? Or are there any guys that do this who could tell me what the issue is maybe? Cz I’ve thought so hard on why and I don’t rly understand what the problem is.

Also I don’t think it’s an issue abt me liking them bc I legit have never had a crush on any of them so idk anyways pls help if u can I’d appreciate it :
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Responses
    Gummy_bear September 29, 2024 1:52 am

    I’m probably the worst person possible for answering this question, but I think you’re probably just so cool and awesome that they fall in love and try to drop hints, but you don’t get them so they get mad at you for something you can control like being oblivious and then they rage ghost you, that or they’re just jerks(not surprising)

    noyoudont September 29, 2024 1:55 am

    don't listen to me but I'll just drop this here: 2 ways
    1st either step up, talk to them and ask "is there something wrong with our friendship?" "did I do something wrong?" DONT do it in angry way, just talk it out in a normal conversing way


    2nd just drop them, idk if they see you toxic or u see them toxic or they r just playing w/ u but if don't really see them important to u maybe just drop them...

    ilovegintoki September 29, 2024 6:37 am
    don't listen to me but I'll just drop this here: 2 ways1st either step up, talk to them and ask "is there something wrong with our friendship?" "did I do something wrong?" DONT do it in angry way, just talk it ... noyoudont

    Yeah I did try talking to them but they will str8 up ignore me like pretend I don’t even exist lmfao but yeah I might just not think abt it anymore tysm for ur advice

    ilovegintoki September 29, 2024 6:38 am
    I’m probably the worst person possible for answering this question, but I think you’re probably just so cool and awesome that they fall in love and try to drop hints, but you don’t get them so they get ma... Gummy_bear

    OMG pls honestly I don’t think they liked me like that but LMFAO that’s cute I think I’ll start thinking that instead of hurting myself ☹

    Gummy_bear September 29, 2024 2:00 pm
    OMG pls honestly I don’t think they liked me like that but LMFAO that’s cute I think I’ll start thinking that instead of hurting myself ☹ ilovegintoki

    Yes!! You’re definitely better than them, so think of your self as the superior person that you are! (*≧∀≦*)