thats because she isnt meant to be a likeable character. her whole thing is that she performs the way she knows would get her the most "love" from the people around her based on her prev experiences. thats why she said she "won" and why its "two for two". what made her mad when she was being confronted wasnt necessarily them judging her for what she did, but them judging her for acting "out of character" when she feels that they didnt even know her real character in the first place. which ofc is also the point, in that she herself does not allow people to know her in an attempt to protect herself from not being accepted, but in doing so, shes also closing herself off from the possibility of finding people who would (basically: her arc is the rewards of being loved/mortifying ordeal of being known quote)
idc if she's supposed to be complex or about her history- idc about the 2 guys either, but acting like they were wrong for judging her when she literally thought "two for two" after the second guy said he wished to date her is stupid. she said she didn't confess and they assumed on their own but she knew damn well what she was doing. again, i couldn't care less about the 2 irrelevant guys but she's just being dumb. i hate when people take out their own issues on others, regardless of their history.