Responses
I am glad I am not the only one who saw it this way. His character wasn't much of an asshole compared to other seme/MLs in most BL manhwa.
He does his best for his family (most esp. Baekho, he's obsessed with the fox totally lol) in a clumsy but unintentional way.
Nodding aggressively
So I decided to read the story once again in one go and I honestly don't not hate the seme. One day he is working his ass off and another day is a father of a 4 year old kid.
Despite that, he's trying his best to treat his unexpected family nicely. Even consoling his son telling him he doesn't hate him and spending more time with them.
His world literally did a 180. So yeah, he's a pervert but not a toxic one.
And come on, fights are common in marriage