Sexually abuse can sometimes result in hypersexuality it's the victims (wrong) coping mechanism it's a attempt at regaining control like"see no ones forcing me! I'm doing it cause I want to! It doesn't hurt me! I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of what's being done to me" but they're actually just revictimizing themselves causing more trauma then they hate themselves and do it again. A BIG circle.
THIS!! And also- if we’re talking about the time he initiated things with the third friend- he was heavily abused at this point clearly out of his mind and he just found out that the only guy he thought treated him like normal actually thought of him in a perverse manner (sure at the time he purely liked the bottom but the guy’s brain was warped and he wasnt thinking clearly) so in line with the hyper sexuality he gave the friend what he thought he wanted (and also what he thought the guy he had a crush on wanted) I think he just hates his body and thinks this is all he can do now
Get where you are coming from, I don't like victim blaming either but it could have been said in a nicer way. Maybe in this moment you aren't able to tolerate people who aren't as versed as you on the subject or haven't been through what you have. but people are more receptive to criticism if it's delivered in a kinder way. they are more likely to take what you told them, learn and reeducate others. that way eventually victim blaming happens less
I dont wanna victim blame. But in the raws it looks like he seeks being sexually abused?? He initiated the encounters a couple of time despite the other monstrous friends trying to contain themselves. Is there an explanation for his behavior? He forced the others to sleep with him despite them trying to resist him. Is this a trauma response? I am so confused.