I feel like here it’s different the guy didn’t know he had feelings for him in this case there’s the possibility of homophobia, which is why the black mailer said he’d find him disgusting n stuff
i feel like it's justifiable for him to be "weak" since he went through so much abuse throughout his life. he's a traumatized person who thinks and acts like a traumatized person. id get what you're saying if this was a matter of him simply being too trusting to people, but he's been getting abused and blackmailed all this time. im sorry, but i don't think it's right to call abuse victims dumb. no one's stupid for having low self esteem because of how they've been treated. it's not a matter of "letting someone walk all over you" if you feel like you don't have a choice. you can't just magically stop getting abused. i think your mentality is what makes so many victims afraid to step up and, again, id agree if this wasn't a literal abuse case. please reflect on that.
Like i said, hes dumb. Hes being blackmailed for things that he can easily deny. People only abused him because hes a people pleaser. He always had a choice. The blackmailer doesnt even have any sort of evidence againts him. Their text messages was more incriminating towards the blackmailer than him.
Uke is literally sleeping with seme, if the seme was homophobic, his dick wouldnt have been anywhere near his ass and if he is, then hes not even worth the attention in the first place. This makes the uke dumb cause he doesnt even know whats good for him. Even though he knows whats good for others? He cant take care of himself, even though he can take care of others? Dude hes literally just a people pleaser trying to look kind to others because hes afraid theyll hate him.
respectfully, go fuck yourself
Those two aren't mutually exclusive but bro isn't dumb or kind bros a victim
People ONLY abused him because he’s a people pleaser? Do you hear yourself? Did you skip over the part where the guy was quite literally physically abused by the people he thought were his friends??? Of course he’s gonna be a people pleaser, the guy has nothing but trauma throughout his life and you’re over here saying that only happened because he’s dumb and weak? Bffr. Also you’re seriously downplaying the effects of manipulation and homophobia. His fear wasn’t himself being found out but rather being hated and thought of as disgusting by the one he liked + recently dragging said guy into the blackmail mess
nah bro he's only a people pleaser cause he was abused,,, do you know how abuse works?
Uke isnt kind. Hes dumb and afraid people will hate him so he just let others walk all over him. Theres kind and theres stupid. Dumb people always mask their weakness with kindness. If you let people go this far with you, youre not kind, youre just weak.