Yeah I get how some people are really mad about it, in the end I think that it really depends on how the person perceives it. Not saying he should necessarily be forgiven in the end depends on the person, there is still a choice to grow, learn and forgive. Much like how there’s people calling it ‘rapey’ and absolutely obliterating him for being too lost in it to the point he doesn’t stop I think if this were to be in real life it depends on the other person really. And I don’t think it’s rape esp when it’s not malicious, and when he doesn’t even REALISE what he did. It’s miscommunication at best. At whether he fucked up big time or not depends on the person. So, think what u want? I guess.
They both virgins and they’re still learning, I guess he got too lost in it, and it’s his first time actually having a proper master. Imo he can be forgiven, they both need to talk n out and learn from what just happened