Why is she under the impression that the Ml hates her? Cuz I mean obviously he doesn’t. ...

Why is she under the impression that the Ml hates her? Cuz I mean obviously he doesn’t. I also don’t hate the red haired king I feel like he doesn’t know that the fl brother meet and talked with the ml telling him about the heart magic etc honestly I would blame the brother more so then the fl cuz he’s the one that set him on that path. Plus when she couldn’t meet “the duke” ml was down with the fever the king was covering for him it seems? He’s a bit of an asshole with the letter. Also can u really call it threatening when her brother was the one getting ready to START the war. She had obviously figured out it was him upon first meeting the king. The king said no u can’t meet him till u sign the papers she said well can I at least write him a letter. Here goes her brother calling in troops when she hasn’t even made a decision yet he’s fighting with their father about the marriage. I feel like that’s what really pushed her to make the decision and her nephew crying in the hall. I can’t even remember if they was on her land?? I think so