all true but the way u put it is so
I would’ve killed myself the minute I got my secondary gender no matter what it was
You're completely right, but also may I add how it's so fucking strange that they get categorized as a secondary sex/gender? Literally what in the fuck does being submissive or dominant have to do with gender, and moreso with biological sex? These stories try to come up with ways to explain how it's an "instinctive" thing, but there is no fucking way that """instinct""" is going to be enough to categorize these things as either gender or sex
Like you said, it's just a rebrand on omegaverse. Since in omegaverse the A/B/O dynamics get called a secondary gender/sex, they do the same here-- but in ABO you can at least kinda see why that is, since it does partly have to do with a person's reproductive systems... But being inclined to be sexually submissive or dominant has got nothing to do with nothing, so how tf do they get away with that
honestly if i was isekai’d into a dom/subverse world and was told i was a sub i’d kill myself. irl the roles of being submissive, dominant or a switch is something a person actively chooses to engage in, being biologically forced into a position with no say in it is terrifying. i mean the mc here is taken advantage of right away even if mentally he is disgusted and hates the situation his body physically reacts without his consent. what a shitty and powerless fate that would be. also since the dom/subverse is supposed to be based off of bdsm it’s annoying that it lumps being a dom with being a sadist and being a sub as a masochist. those are separate things. and of course the lack of switches ever being in these stories. it’s just omegaverse repackaged.