I mean they’re just stating the truth that most readers won’t openly say. I’m not mad at them. The most popular BLs on this website all include romanticized rape. If you filter by popularity on this website almost every single BL(yaoi) on the first page includes sexual violence. It’s the standard and it indicates what readers want if they continue to tolerate it, so authors continue to cater to this. Is it right? Who am I to judge, I personally won’t stick around most times as I personally hate this trope, but based on popularity alone OP isn’t the outlier for their opinion whether or not its problematic.
I know i know, WE KNOW but we just love a manipulative rapist with a HAPPY ENDING ok?!!!! So just let it be, it's fictional and we don't want it to happen in real life but just let the story be! (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸