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The ex isn’t nice at all. He literally had no feelings for her whatsoever after 6 years of being together and almost getting married. He just proved that with this chapter. He didn’t care whether they got back together or not. He didn’t care whether she started dating someone else or not. He even didn’t care whether they got married or not. He’s doing everything for her like it’s some sort of favour and he’s treating it like it’s someone else’s business. If he was actually nice he would’ve broken up with her long ago before wasting 6 years of her life since he clearly doesn’t have any romantic feelings for her. He’s just trying to be the nice guy but doesn’t realise what he’s doing is down right shitty. She’s a nice girl. She deserves to know the truth and she deserves to be with someone who actually loves her and not just doing her a favour like she’s some charity case.

you are right, what he did was wrong xd but its not something that i would say is OBJECTIVELY the worst thing to do. I can kinda sorta empathise with his character too? Mc deserves a better man, yes. I am just saying that there are some relationships that run deeper than just romantic love. I think he is a little bothered too the way he told his sister that he wants to see her. What i feel is that he loves mc unconditionally, just not romantically(￣∇￣")

I don't think he loves her, if he really did, he wouldn't take away 6 years of her life pretending like he loved her when she could've been dating someone who ACTUALLY loves her.
And I hate how he's acting like he did for her own sake like she's a "charity case" it's disgusting how he was gonna even get married to her and essentially lie to her and deceive her for LIFE. Honestly, she's too nice I would've done something much worse if someone lied to me like that and wasted 6 years of my life

You don’t have to do “Objectively the worst thing” to be considered a shitty person. Also he did do the worst thing he could do, he deceived her for 6 years. He wasted 6 years of her life for nothing. He based their whole relationship on a lie from the beginning. He treated her like he was doing her a favour by being with her and marrying her. She was just some charity case to him. It’s doesn’t matter whether he had any malicious intentions while doing this or the best of intentions at heart because the fact of the matter is he did do this to her knowing full well what he was doing and he did hurt her deeply. I know some relationships run deeper than romantic love but their relationship was a romantic one. They were dating for 6 years and almost got married. In addition, she wanted a romantic relationship. If he didn’t love her romantically he could’ve tried to have a different kind of relationship with her from the beginning but instead he decided to deceive her. She didn’t force him to be in a romantic relationship with her. Also romantic relationships can run deeper than any other relationship, they just have to be with the right person. Also his level of “bothered for her” is about the same level of bothered you get about seeing your neighbour that you don’t even know well. His responses this chapter showed how he literally has near to nothing feelings towards her even after 6 years of dating. He doesn’t care about the outcome of anything relating to her because his main concern is being the nice guy, not her. He just has some sort of saviour or responsibility complex. Just because she saved his dad he thinks he has to be responsible for her. She never asked him to do that. This isn’t good for him either because he’s overlooking his own feelings and wants. He’s treating the whole ordeal as someone else’s business. Even if he was bothered for real I’d say it’s too little, too late because when she knows the whole truth about their relationship there’s no way she would want him back.