I like smut but

Me_for_ president September 21, 2024 1:37 am

I like smut but no matter the genre is straight gl, or bl Why is the mc always a fucking whore and the other is a virgin. They’ll be a 30-year-old grown ass adult and still a virgin and the other partner will be a 20-year-old with 100+ bodies. Like why can’t they be both normal? Why does one of them always have to be a whore or super horny.

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    Gummy_bear September 21, 2024 1:40 am

    I’ve never payed attention to smut this deeply, but now that I think about it, you’re right. I wonder why this is so common in smut

    ✾ Lazy_Potato ✾ September 21, 2024 1:49 am

    i've noticed this phenomenon in bls early on ever since i started reading them and quite frankly it pisses me off. as a advocator for balanced dynamics, i can't tolerate seeing this "one" sided relationship, so to say but i don't really mind if it's executed well- which most stories don't. that's why i usually tend to drop such kinds of bls

    FluffBall-Sama September 21, 2024 2:04 am

    Authors really want to established masculinity usually on seme using this playboy scenario and many people ate it up because it can be a part of character development for the playboy.

    It is really disgusting how virgin uke or women are portrayed because of common societal perception that it is cute and feminine.

    Wormie September 21, 2024 2:08 am

    Fr but I think it’s because there always has to be a power imbalance even if it’s low key

    Me_for_ president September 21, 2024 2:11 am
    Authors really want to established masculinity usually on seme using this playboy scenario and many people ate it up because it can be a part of character development for the playboy.It is really disgusting how... FluffBall-Sama

    Yessss I also drop them sometimes they reverse it the woman or uke will sleep with anyone but why can’t they just both be normal without you know one of them fucking everything that moves.

    Wormie September 21, 2024 2:15 am
    Yessss I also drop them sometimes they reverse it the woman or uke will sleep with anyone but why can’t they just both be normal without you know one of them fucking everything that moves. Me_for_ president

    Seriously like try not to freak it for a few chaps PLEASE

    FluffBall-Sama September 21, 2024 2:15 am
    Yessss I also drop them sometimes they reverse it the woman or uke will sleep with anyone but why can’t they just both be normal without you know one of them fucking everything that moves. Me_for_ president

    Ohh definitely there are mangas like that, I just like it because of revenge, when most seme are playboy. Since I rarely found them in a plot.

    ama September 21, 2024 3:16 am

    also the emphasis on virgins in these stories are so weird. like the characteristics are so one dimensional such as being naive af and acting like they ain’t never had sex ed before. you can suck dick/coochie and done all types of things, and be a virgin at the same time. a virgin deadass just means no penetration period ugh it’s so annoying

    Me_for_ president September 21, 2024 3:24 am
    also the emphasis on virgins in these stories are so weird. like the characteristics are so one dimensional such as being naive af and acting like they ain’t never had sex ed before. you can suck dick/coochie... ama

    Yes they act like they’ve never seen coochie or dick

    Shutup! September 21, 2024 4:08 am

    It reminds me of a lot of dark romance fantasy novel where ML is like dark lord 500yo misunderstood demon but secretly kind and the FL is virgin 19yo girl who can fix ML insomnia (or whatever madness) using sex lol. Idk why. But this trope is super common. And the experience dude always like : sex with you is so different, it helps me calm or whatever.

    But it also trope in BL like seme is super dominant playboy alpha rich chaebol super smart exude masculine pheromone and uke will be like 19/20yo virgin recessive omega with low ability to get pregnant but somehow he can handle super dominant alpha rut and he could get pregnant by miracle.

    Lol.

    I think the author really like GAP. See, in drama or novel most likely, it established fantasy, so author really like playing the most nonsensical fantasy gap.
    Super rich x super poor
    Horndog x virgin inexperience
    Older x younger (and not even grooming age gap but like 400 years age gap lol)

    Lark September 21, 2024 5:26 am

    This truly gives that vibe. They never say the seme is a virgin but he is truly being shown intimacy and care for the first time in his Yakuza life. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yakuza_wo_shibatte_ii_desu_ka/