I like smut but

I’ve never payed attention to smut this deeply, but now that I think about it, you’re right. I wonder why this is so common in smut

i've noticed this phenomenon in bls early on ever since i started reading them and quite frankly it pisses me off. as a advocator for balanced dynamics, i can't tolerate seeing this "one" sided relationship, so to say but i don't really mind if it's executed well- which most stories don't. that's why i usually tend to drop such kinds of bls

Authors really want to established masculinity usually on seme using this playboy scenario and many people ate it up because it can be a part of character development for the playboy.

It is really disgusting how virgin uke or women are portrayed because of common societal perception that it is cute and feminine.

Fr but I think it’s because there always has to be a power imbalance even if it’s low key

Yessss I also drop them sometimes they reverse it the woman or uke will sleep with anyone but why can’t they just both be normal without you know one of them fucking everything that moves.

Seriously like try not to freak it for a few chaps PLEASE

Ohh definitely there are mangas like that, I just like it because of revenge, when most seme are playboy. Since I rarely found them in a plot.

also the emphasis on virgins in these stories are so weird. like the characteristics are so one dimensional such as being naive af and acting like they ain’t never had sex ed before. you can suck dick/coochie and done all types of things, and be a virgin at the same time. a virgin deadass just means no penetration period ugh it’s so annoying

Yes they act like they’ve never seen coochie or dick

It reminds me of a lot of dark romance fantasy novel where ML is like dark lord 500yo misunderstood demon but secretly kind and the FL is virgin 19yo girl who can fix ML insomnia (or whatever madness) using sex lol. Idk why. But this trope is super common. And the experience dude always like : sex with you is so different, it helps me calm or whatever.

But it also trope in BL like seme is super dominant playboy alpha rich chaebol super smart exude masculine pheromone and uke will be like 19/20yo virgin recessive omega with low ability to get pregnant but somehow he can handle super dominant alpha rut and he could get pregnant by miracle.

Lol.

I think the author really like GAP. See, in drama or novel most likely, it established fantasy, so author really like playing the most nonsensical fantasy gap.
Super rich x super poor
Horndog x virgin inexperience
Older x younger (and not even grooming age gap but like 400 years age gap lol)

This truly gives that vibe. They never say the seme is a virgin but he is truly being shown intimacy and care for the first time in his Yakuza life. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yakuza_wo_shibatte_ii_desu_ka/