I’m kinda craving that deep depressing feeling joongdo is experiencing chat am I cooked

Girl/Dude/non binary fellow
wtf
Did you feel this before? It's no good absolutely sucks don't recommend a third of it
But if you are masochistic go on

Hello fellow, I am in fact asexual/aromantic so I don’t think I’ll ever get to experience this which is why I’m so curious

that's so real lmao

I guess this kind of feeling isn't related strictly to love only. He's probably feeling alone and unworthy since he focused 100% of his life in just one thing and now it came to nothing.

I completely agree. As I wrote this, I thought; others might still relate despite not going through what’s specifically happening in this chapt. I thought of myself in diff situations, but I feel like to understand that exact emotion and depression he’s going thru, u need that loving relationship or wtv, that he felt he had. As an aromantic person I can never feel that sort of love or compassion for a person. With my adhd I’ve felt like- severe obsession with multiple people, but I don’t think it’d be the same as someone you’re in love with or wtv! Anyway point is I’m agreeing; it’s not limited to ppl ur in love with bc I’ve certainly never had romantic relationships where I’m completed obsessed or feel destroyed over a person but I’d like to know what it feels like in a romantic sense. I can usually brush it off as “we were just friends” or “L”, these kinda things happen.

So true, tbh half the time when I see these I think okay but why don't you just cut them off and move on? But then I remember these ppl are experiencing that elusive thing called "love"

I get what you mean, kinda like you can only feel this sad if you loved someone that much, so it's more being jealous of those strong romantic emotions rather than the depression, while in most cases when I see ppl dealing with issues related to their partners I'm glad our brains don't have that wiring cuz you can just be I guess more logical? And wouldn't let as much slide out of "love", but at the same time, we live in a society and are constantly shown images of that love making "life worth living" or making mundane tasks more fun cuz it's with someone you love or whatever. Closest thing I can compare it with is like friends? tho in which case I'm also faced with the reality that I'm not necessarily more "logical" than an allo person since I probably let "friends" mistreat me more than what the average allo would allow a partner to do... now another realization I'm having now is how for us the highest level of closeness or love would be with a friend leading us to always be the one that's more invested in the relationship vs the other party who's no1 is reserved for their partner.....why am I disintegrating in this yaoi comment section...