Please be Honest

FluffBall-Sama September 19, 2024 10:50 am

I know many or I think everyone likes the plot created by BWAT, and I was checking some of the manhwa and one thing I always notice is how they always state that the seme has experienced sex with other people.

I know it is common, but why 4 manhwa I read always attach that they had experienced it with other people.

I think everyone isnt bother by it, and its just my personal preference hindering because I know many gays already experienced sex even if they are really not in a relation and I was just jealous since Im in 20's and I didnt have one. I just dont want to engage in dangerous sex when cases of STI are increasing in my country.

I already check Taming the tiger, Foul Start, Blood link and Smyrna&Capri
- they all either show them having sex with other people or stated it.

So Im genuinely asking if someone here notice a manhwa of BWAT that dont necessarily introduce the characters experiencing sex with other people?

Im not hating those works, I just cant deal with them at this moment of my life.

Responses
    LGtfo September 19, 2024 11:38 am

    ??? I don’t think you should be jealous of fictional characters. The tops weren’t even together with the mc at that point. Maybe read something else because I’m pretty sure all bwats tops have experience. I like it though, it’s more realistic since most people you meet have already had past relationships.

    FluffBall-Sama September 19, 2024 11:42 am
    ??? I don’t think you should be jealous of fictional characters. The tops weren’t even together with the mc at that point. Maybe read something else because I’m pretty sure all bwats tops have experience.... LGtfo

    I know most manhwa really had an experience top, but to the point of illustrating them doing it with others really just hit my heart.

    I dont even want to know what my future bf had done in his past, as long as his faithful now (if I get to have one)

    Elio September 19, 2024 12:40 pm

    I get what you are feeling .
    Though I have only experienced this once . The manhwa " The third Ending" .. I was jealous of ML 's previous relationships and him having sex with his previous partners . Don't know why ??. He is just fictional character lol. But I couldn't shake off the feeling of him treating others as fondly as he did to our Joonie .

    FluffBall-Sama September 19, 2024 1:16 pm
    I get what you are feeling . Though I have only experienced this once . The manhwa " The third Ending" .. I was jealous of ML 's previous relationships and him having sex with his previous partners . Don't know... Elio

    Wait he really did?? It is still in my reading list, did they drawn the ML or seme having sex with others? Or it was only stated?

    Elio September 19, 2024 1:29 pm
    Wait he really did?? It is still in my reading list, did they drawn the ML or seme having sex with others? Or it was only stated? FluffBall-Sama

    No it isn't shown or drawn . It is just stated that he has dated many ( all girls ) before MC. Obviously he had sex . But it would be weirder if he hadn't cuz ... He is too handsome and gets asked out alot .

    Elio September 19, 2024 1:33 pm
    Wait he really did?? It is still in my reading list, did they drawn the ML or seme having sex with others? Or it was only stated? FluffBall-Sama

    Honestly don't know if I should be happy or not that it wasn't shown . Cuz it it was. ... I would be heartbroken but at the same I could kinda compare how loving the process was with MC and with others . If he was less loving.to others and I would probably fly to moon with joy.

    But just now thought it's good that it wasn't shown . My jealousy hits the rock imao

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:22 pm

    Omg we have same mindset rn

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:28 pm
    Wait he really did?? It is still in my reading list, did they drawn the ML or seme having sex with others? Or it was only stated? FluffBall-Sama

    He said he was in 3,4 relationship before meeting uke but seme is not a fuckboy , he is obsessed with uke , yes i feel kind of sad when semes slept with others in the past while uke are gay and virgin like uke should have slept with other mens too before engaging with seme :)

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:33 pm
    I know most manhwa really had an experience top, but to the point of illustrating them doing it with others really just hit my heart. I dont even want to know what my future bf had done in his past, as long as ... FluffBall-Sama

    I feel you!! That's fucking unnecessary to illustrate them doing it with others. I read only bl and if I saw straight segs in yaoi I feel so grossed out and drop the manhwa because straight smut makes me uncomfortable .

    FluffBall-Sama September 19, 2024 2:35 pm
    Honestly don't know if I should be happy or not that it wasn't shown . Cuz it it was. ... I would be heartbroken but at the same I could kinda compare how loving the process was with MC and with others . If he ... Elio

    Well its rather annoying why they always need to state it, like I dont even want to hear whom you did it. They just want to establish the masculinity of the seme by saying he is experienced. ╥﹏╥

    FluffBall-Sama September 19, 2024 2:38 pm
    I feel you!! That's fucking unnecessary to illustrate them doing it with others. I read only bl and if I saw straight segs in yaoi I feel so grossed out and drop the manhwa because straight smut makes me uncomf... Je re

    Yes, Im ready to see smut because of BL and I didnt read just to see boobs which I am not prepare of seeing (⊙…⊙ )

    Then the uke is waiting for the seme to come in his life, like how unfair it is, he should also have fun to enjoy equality

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:45 pm
    I feel you!! That's fucking unnecessary to illustrate them doing it with others. I read only bl and if I saw straight segs in yaoi I feel so grossed out and drop the manhwa because straight smut makes me uncomf... Je re

    Hope no one comes after you for saying this .

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:46 pm
    Yes, Im ready to see smut because of BL and I didnt read just to see boobs which I am not prepare of seeing (⊙…⊙ )Then the uke is waiting for the seme to come in his life, like how unfair it is, he should... FluffBall-Sama

    Boobs and possey in yaoi is really unnecessary like what the fucking hell. If we want to read straight smut we would just read straight manga but why in yaoi general?? That triggers me, and makes me traumatized af

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:47 pm
    Yes, Im ready to see smut because of BL and I didnt read just to see boobs which I am not prepare of seeing (⊙…⊙ )Then the uke is waiting for the seme to come in his life, like how unfair it is, he should... FluffBall-Sama

    This is exactly why I like Puppy seme's who are virgin . It's so new and good to see them blush during the act .

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:49 pm
    Well its rather annoying why they always need to state it, like I dont even want to hear whom you did it. They just want to establish the masculinity of the seme by saying he is experienced. ╥﹏╥ FluffBall-Sama

    I think you will like "The third Ending" manhwa alot . Cuz in this manhwa nor his past smut is shown neither it is stated that he has had sex before.

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:50 pm
    Hope no one comes after you for saying this . Elio

    Which cunt dares to lmao. Everyone has opinion so we can state in comment section but if my comment offended them then they can cry buckets of water

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:52 pm
    Boobs and possey in yaoi is really unnecessary like what the fucking hell. If we want to read straight smut we would just read straight manga but why in yaoi general?? That triggers me, and makes me traumatized... Je re

    It can be shocking for ppl who aren't ready . A warning would be better I think . A year before I too would feel really uncomfortable whenever Boobs and all was suddenly shown in Yaoi . But nowadays I have gotten used to it , I guess . Not that uncomfortable anymore. I just scroll those panels away . That's all..

    Je re September 19, 2024 2:57 pm
    It can be shocking for ppl who aren't ready . A warning would be better I think . A year before I too would feel really uncomfortable whenever Boobs and all was suddenly shown in Yaoi . But nowadays I have go... Elio

    Yupp without spoilers, it kind of triggers people who are not good with straight smut in yaoi. No matter what, I can't get used to that, I just feel anxious when I witness one :)

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:58 pm
    Which cunt dares to lmao. Everyone has opinion so we can state in comment section but if my comment offended them then they can cry buckets of water Je re

    Elio September 19, 2024 2:58 pm
    Yupp without spoilers, it kind of triggers people who are not good with straight smut in yaoi. No matter what, I can't get used to that, I just feel anxious when I witness one :) Je re

    Hope you stumble upon such Yaoi less.

    Ommooo just checked your bio .
    seme/uke sleeping around despite having feelings for each other is big turn off eww .SO TRUEE .
    Beauty and the west chamber is such an underrated gem .