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PatatoGuy September 17, 2024 5:50 am

imma be fr, I think uke deserves someone much better than seme. Even if they redeem him, I still don't really like him. Don't get me wrong, he hot as Fk but he kinda rubs me the wrong way. plus I hate the rich has a all semes x cute innocent uke trope, because it often has seme taking advantage and using uke as a sex toy or just playing around. Then after they already abandoned uke or have been doing this for a long time do they actually like uke. And more often than not, uke just goes along with it cause well they don't have any experence and plus its all in the past... (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸

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    GreenTea September 17, 2024 9:13 am

    I understand what you mean and agree the uke deserves an affectionate lover. But in the seme's defence he's already been upfront that he's not looking for anything more (for now) and they both know they're only fuck buddies. So even while the uke is wishing for more, it's not really the seme's fault for any fallout if he rejects him before realizing his feelings. He's not taking advantage or leading on the uke.

    Anonymous September 17, 2024 10:17 am
    I understand what you mean and agree the uke deserves an affectionate lover. But in the seme's defence he's already been upfront that he's not looking for anything more (for now) and they both know they're only... GreenTea

    He is taking advantage of him though. Like Yeomin did agree to it but ml knows that MC likes him and is taking advantage of that because it means he can do whatever he wants with him, he said it himself, he likes it when they're 'easy'.

    Anonymous September 17, 2024 10:17 am

    Agreed, cause mc is also a very likeable character and it's annoying to see him get with someone who is just not good enough tbh

    GreenTea September 17, 2024 5:42 pm
    He is taking advantage of him though. Like Yeomin did agree to it but ml knows that MC likes him and is taking advantage of that because it means he can do whatever he wants with him, he said it himself, he lik... Anonymous

    Well yeah he did say that, but he hasn't actually done that? Like i've seen no instance of him forcing the mc, everything has been chill and consensual for the most part. So i honestly forgot he said that cause he doesn't really act on it.
    To me i kinda group the ML as a character in denial. His actions reflect more on his feelings than what he actually says, so his words don't hold any weight to me.

    Anonymous September 18, 2024 12:44 am
    Well yeah he did say that, but he hasn't actually done that? Like i've seen no instance of him forcing the mc, everything has been chill and consensual for the most part. So i honestly forgot he said that cause... GreenTea

    Taking advantage of someone doesn't have to mean straight up rape.

    Omegaflower September 18, 2024 1:29 am
    Taking advantage of someone doesn't have to mean straight up rape. Anonymous

    If Seme sets his boundaries and the uke can't respect that then that's on the Uke. Seme is not responsible if Uke develops feelings and seme doesn't reciprocate. And there has been no "taking advantage" as everything's been consensual so far and Uke initiates aswell. And when he was talking about easy he was obv talking in a fuckbuddy sense.

    GreenTea September 18, 2024 2:29 am
    Taking advantage of someone doesn't have to mean straight up rape. Anonymous

    Why did you jump to such an extreme i know that perfectly well. to prove your point you should have said an example of the seme actually taking advantage thats happened so far, which like i said, hasn't happened yet and seems unlikely

    ayvan September 22, 2024 4:29 am
    Why did you jump to such an extreme i know that perfectly well. to prove your point you should have said an example of the seme actually taking advantage thats happened so far, which like i said, hasn't happen... GreenTea

    taking advantage meaning using the uke's feelings as a way to get into his pants. he did that in the first few chapters

    GreenTea September 22, 2024 6:06 am
    taking advantage meaning using the uke's feelings as a way to get into his pants. he did that in the first few chapters ayvan

    How? Cause i don't see evidence of that. uke doesn't realize he has feelings until after they start sleeping together. And again, the seme was upfront early that this was only physical, meaning he has no intention for either of them to catch feelings or go into a relationship. It's not manipulation if the uke agreed and he believes the uke will uphold that.