Leo is alone?????? He got his fans, his whole supportive and loving family and his caring manager...the one alone is J.J, and i am NOT DEFENDING J.J,they both are wrong...so why he is the red flag when Leo is no better.. does crying to a sad playlist after having a good fck and winning a title only to miss the award ceremony makes him the victim??...J.J is still standing strong and facing Leo while Leo is just slamming doors without confronting the issue...he is an ADULT but behaving like a teenager..
fans don't really mean anything to leo, and they don't know him or anything about him, so why would that make him less lonely? not only that, but the thing with his family is that his sisters and parents and almost everyone leo works with is telling him it's his fault, and is unwilling to try to see leo's point of view. i never said leo was a victim either. the reason i said jj is acting like a red flag is because in the last two sex scenes leo literally told jj to stop doing what he is doing. and jj didnt. it doesn't matter if leo "looked like he was enjoying it" and that's why jj continued even after leo told him to stop. leo told him to stop, and jj continuing is borderline rape. leo has a right to be angry and so does jj, all im saying is that im on leo's side.
So why is he coming back to J.J if he is soooo bad, and yes everyone around Leo have seen them and their relationship..so they are telling him he is wrong. Plus J.J is not a red flag, they both got some issues...if we go by your pov then is not appreciating your partner's efforts also a red flag?? Is saying no and then continuing is the only red flag? But just contacting for a quick s*x (chp 1) not a red flag?
Red flag is a serious term, don't just use it casually...it means J.J is innately a bad person who is a controlling freak who is so alpha that he can't take a no for sxx..(And on side note most of the yaois are borderline SA's so the bar is low anyways)
Let's focus on how they are dealing with their broken relationship aside from the sxx scenes, it's for the twisted fans i guess
do you even hear yourself? are you a little kid? i'm genuinely asking because what you're arguing and the way you're interpreting my responses and what i'm saying is so elementary level... im just so skeptical rn because there's no way you're an adult. so lemme break this down for you step by step.
1. "why does leo go back to jj if he's so bad?" because that's how relationships work. leo and jj formed an attachment to each other because at some point, and maybe even at this point of the story, they love(d) each other. it's natural to miss and want to reconnect with someone you depend on, and was a part of your life, and brought you happiness for a long time. you should know this. like this entire reasoning as a whole and what we've seen in the story is so self explanatory and obvious that, you not understanding something so simple as this, is why i'm suspecting you're a child with no experience with something as basic as this. it's just common sense honestly.
2. "people saw their relationship, so that's why they're saying leo is a bad boyfriend" from an objective standpoint, leo was a bad boyfriend. 100%. i literally said that in my original post. but just because he was a bad boyfriend does not mean that he deserves all the blame from the people around him for jjs and leo's break up. lack of understanding and willingness to empathize or truly listen to what happened coming from the people that leo feels like he should trust the most (his sisters and caring managers) has to hurt. i have no doubt in my mind as to WHY those characters said leo was wrong, the issue is that they're leaving him without support from an emotional standpoint, even if they attempt to physically support him (ex, his sisters taking him to a bar to get over jj.) leo feels emotionally alone, and he is vulnerable, unstable, and sad.
3. "is not appreciating your partners not a red flag as well?" i never said it wasn't. i never once insinuated in anything i ever said that leo was perfect. i, in fact, do believe that neglecting your partners efforts to connect with you can be a red flag. (key word: can). in this specific way, yes, leo ignoring jj's attempts to connect, appreciate, and spend time with him because of leo's own selfish desires for fame is a red flag.
4. "don't use the term red flag casually" i never did. i'm not saying red flag casually, at all. i said it seriously. i was seriously and genuinely assessing jjs actions from an objective, critical, literal standpoint. this is also a reason of why i think you might be a little kid- because you're obviously emotionally driven and you continue to make the mistake of projecting that immature emotional connection you have with your own arguments onto mine. im simply sharing my opinion based on the events observed in the story so far. and you not being able to identify that is extremely immature and shows your lack of experience with real literary pieces.
5. "calling jj a red flag means jj is a controlling alpha rapist" um. no. that's not what it means. please do research before you make claims like this. i was also saying jj HAS red flags, not that he IS one. very different
6. "most yaois are borderline SA so the bar is low/this is for the twisted fans" it is so disgusting for you to say something like this. please educate yourself. truly, im embarrassed that people like you exist. please, please educate yourself. i'm not going to try to argue or teach you anything on this point, because what you're saying is so detached from reality, im unsure where to start, and i also fear that no matter what i say, you will be unable to grasp the concept. that how out of touch you are.
lastly, please read my reply thoroughly and think out your next response, (if you even want to respond.)
jj is kinda pissing me off like wdym ur not close. im on leo's side , like yeah he should have been a better bf but rn leos all alone, and jj acting like this is such a red flag, it makes me sad