I don't like Raymond, but I feel sorry for his PTSD...

Well tbh she didn’t believe Raymond actually saved her life, which I mean would make sense by the way he would act towards her
My heart does go out to him for witnessing something so tragic that reminded him of war.. however, it’s not like the princess would know of his PTSD, so we can’t fully shame her on that part and label her as being selfish—in reality , she probably assumed he would’ve wanted the same thing; after all, we saw how uncomfortable he was when the princess was courting him

I understand her reaction here, but it gets much worse than this and I don't want to write spoilers here in case you don't know what will happen but you will understand what I mean close to the end.

pls spoile me what agnes will do later!!

SPOILER ALERT!!!!!









Basically she will die again (I will not mention the circumstances), and Raymond gets crazy because of that, to the point he needed to be tied to a bed and medicated because he can't cope with her death.
When she's back and gets to know about his situation, she takes a lot of time to go visit him and she's very cold to him even after seeing how bad his situation is.
I understand she is crazy about Kylo, but she was not the one suffering because of Raymond, it was the real Agnes, and if I saw someone medicated because of me it would make me sad and I would feel a bit responsible about the situation.
She just talks to him and left without a second thought.

Noway... that's too harsh
I genuinely wish he gets over her and just move forward , I get the feeling he took a lot of his frustrations out on her throughout their childhood but I can't really excuse this level of insensitivity

That’s so mean WHAT is there a need to be so harsh?

"If I saw someone medicated because of me it would make me sad and I would feel a bit responsible about the situation." That's a nice thought and all but we all know nowadays that, along with the ones deserving sympathy, there are always some crazies out there, who love using that one thing to manipulate and control people... So, which one is Raymond?

It is harsh but I cannot judge without knowing what lead up to her third death… and it’s not like she died hoping to traumatize and torture the poor dude…and it’s not her responsibility that he had a mental breakdown especially when he had been shoving her away and holding her responsible for staying next to him. Since the Agnes currently isn’t the Agnes he grew up with, anything she does or say would not be able to comfort him enough…given how much trauma, anger and guilt he has been repressing…he would have ended up there one way or the other.