What about his Father, is no one going to blame him? He didn't reach out, he had done nothing. I know why, No one is blaming him because he is depressed, while the wife needs to be strong enough for the 3 of them. If she fails she gets the blame. I am not blaming his father or his mother, I think its just unfair to hate on her that much.
It's not fair, to blame the mom she was exhausted. If she didn't left her and her husband were going to sink together dragging Sekye along with everything. She needed to get out of there and Sekye is too young to understand, he was also starting to develop the same problem his dad has at a young age and her mom without realising it, she was already been sinking on her own.
I think that made her go out and leave Sekye which worsen his abandonment trauma that started when his dad left. At end of the day we can argue all we want that she was a destable crazy mother, she shouldn't have left Sekye etc. But she is living her first life too. She also needed help. At that time she felt that was the best or she was running away. Even if that's the case, I couldn't blame her. At very least she tried reaching out, Sekye is cutting her off which is understandable. Yes its a trigger factor for Sekye, but that's a case for his mother too right? Its too unfair to treat her mother like she should have been strong enough for both sekye and his father.
What about his Father, is no one going to blame him? He didn't reach out, he had done nothing. I know why, No one is blaming him because he is depressed, while the wife needs to be strong enough for the 3 of them. If she fails she gets the blame. I am not blaming his father or his mother, I think its just unfair to hate on her that much.
It's not fair, to blame the mom she was exhausted. If she didn't left her and her husband were going to sink together dragging Sekye along with everything. She needed to get out of there and Sekye is too young to understand, he was also starting to develop the same problem his dad has at a young age and her mom without realising it, she was already been sinking on her own.
I think that made her go out and leave Sekye which worsen his abandonment trauma that started when his dad left. At end of the day we can argue all we want that she was a destable crazy mother, she shouldn't have left Sekye etc. But she is living her first life too. She also needed help. At that time she felt that was the best or she was running away. Even if that's the case, I couldn't blame her. At very least she tried reaching out, Sekye is cutting her off which is understandable. Yes its a trigger factor for Sekye, but that's a case for his mother too right? Its too unfair to treat her mother like she should have been strong enough for both sekye and his father.