holy hell i wrote a lot this is my longest comment yet hope i made sense tho
Lmao tbh i wouldn't even call what woojin did as cheating. Cuz if im being real that trash needs to be in hell frfr.
What? That is cheating, he literally slept with someone else behind Taehwan’s back. Unless you’re talking about the backstory where Woojin met Taehwan and left Minho?
And at the very least, Woojin is remorseful for his cheating on Taehwan. Unlike that shitty uke from A Form of Broken Love / Pieces of Us.
i genuinely hope there are no people supporting minho. if you’re rooting for minho and woojin to end up together because they’re both fucked and you hate woojin then sure. but i hope those of you understand minho really made him that fucked up. yeah, woojin had his problems from his past, controlling relationships but minho just multiplied that by a ton. 3 years??? 3 years woojin was stuck in that hellhole with a man that was so manipulative and abusive he removed contact with woojin from anyone that he deemed likely to ruin their relationship/make woojin depend on anyone but minho. not to mention minho probably felt like a stranger to woojin for so long, as i’d assume minho didn’t give enough of a fuck to show any affection or true care to his “lover”.
and this all isn’t to say i don't blame or am defending woojin for cheating. what he did was very fucked up. but sometimes you should know what led a person to do such a thing. in situations like woojin’s, where you are abused in quite literally all different aspects for years, it starts to feel like a place of routine where you know the outcome and you can always run back to when you’re feeling unsure.
new relationship going too well, i’m scared he’ll leave me? no worries, ill retreat to my old relationship where i know how ill be treated. he treats me like shit? well, yeah, i know he does but this is the only thing ive known for so long, knowing the toxic cycle of this relationship is better than dealing with the unknown and doubts in my new one.
i don’t care as much now who woojin ends up with whether he ends up alone or with taehwan, as long as it’s not minho. but i will say i do hope he ends up with someone - probably taehwan - as they’ve already had a connection and healing is usually better with the support of someone (+ a therapist lol).