First off she ask Doyeon to share the bed because her back hurt from sleeping on the couch because of how skinny she is and second she ask Doyeon to never leave her because she was alone in her own apartment for so long and being harassed almost everyday by thugs and 3rd if Doyeon was a guy you would then see and even agree that she did take advantage of Jinjoo when she stayed there,that time Doyeon Fucked Jinjoo in the kitchen she didn't even ask her and if that was man you would see how WRONG that was,the thoughts that crosses Jinjoo's mind i feel like some of y'all ignore it which is Jinjoo's true and honest feelings.
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Don’t be obtuse, the couch thing is bs and never leaving her alone again is crossing the line, she cannot ask that of Doueon, you can’t even ask that of a regular normal friend. The only answer Doyeon could have had after kissing her or even beginning to think those thoughts towards Jinjoo is to kick her out. That is the only ethical answer. Jinjoo initiated all that shit after for god knows what reason, even after Doyeon put space between them. And after Jinjoo’s dumb shit of a husband came back, the way she treated Doyeon was terrible. Once again, she is not a child. How do you justify ch 20 and Jinjoo’s vile behaviour towards Doyeon’s sister? How did she know Doyeon’s parents were rich and what position they held in society? She literally got off on the domination and making Doyeon’s sister feel disgusted and feel sick. And she used that energy to have sex with Doyeon right after. And this was before Doyeon’s sister went batshit crazy and did insane shit. I mean, lady, just go to your church and ask for help, srsly, what the frick. Or how about when she manipulated Doyeon’s guy friend by saying shit like Doyeon talks about him so much she thought on he was her bf, she said that to manipulate him into being ok with her staying with Doyeon.
Seems you're a bit slow,Jinjoo said anything to be able to stay at Doyeon's place,she was in survival mode and her sleeping with Doyeon after was her trying to make the entire situation just end already,she didn't want to discuss what happened but used sex as a distraction,she told Doyeon's sister that shit get her tp keep her mouth shut about her staying there and what would happen to her parents reputation if it got out that their other daughter fucked a 40yr old woman,are you even understanding anything in the story,are you even an adult maybe not and just like others you totally ignore Jinjoo's thoughts and focus more on her actions,have you even tried to understand how desperate Jinjoo was because of all she went through in that apartment all alone,she even said she had sex with Doyeon to get her to like her and i feel like she ment like her enough to let her stay safe at her home and to be her friend.
About Gunwoo...i could careless about him...look kid people use sex as a distraction when they feel hurt sometimes and when Jinjoo said what she said to Morae it was to hurt her feelings and breakdown her confidence,Jinjoo was affected by Morae's actions and that slap in the face from,you think that slap didn't bother her well it did and her revenge was to fuck Doyeon to make herself feel better it's why she told Doyeon to penetrate her even if it hurts,she wanted to feel pain physically because Morae's words and actions hurt her at heart.Seems you don't know much about sex and why in different situations people have sex huh.
You literally could not care less about Doyeon. You’ve said as much before. You justify everything Jinjoo does and empathize with her completely. Anything and everything she does, whether wrong or right, is justified and makes sense to you but you will not even try to give the same consideration to Doyeon. The revelation that Jinjoo wanted Doyeon to “like her” only came a couple of chapters ago and it was a big reveal, this was after the chapter where we saw that Jinjoo was indeed emotionally manipulating and hurting Doyeon by putting all of the baggage and anger she acquired from her 20 year marriage and resentment towards her husband on Doyeon. Let’s not mention the possessiveness and the controlling tendencies she has. It wasn’t that she wanted her to like her, she thought that her body was the only thing she could offer and someone enjoying her body without regards to her comfort meant that she means something to them which is fucked up and really sucks and is sad and it is what she thought. It’s more complex than her just wanting Doyeon to “like her”. It’s where her proclivity for rough sex comes from. Anyways, I get it, you want Doyeon to be a one dimensional character, you want her to be a villain, you want her entire purpose as a character to serve Jinjoo, as a protector, a sex object to rid her of her pain, a pursuer, a lover, a user, whatever Jinjoo needs. She doesn’t have a personality or a story outside of Jinjoo. Of course, Jinjoo has one outside of Doyeon but Doyeon does not. And whatever Doyeon went through isn’t valid. You don’t care about Doyeon as a character. That’s fine man, I guess. And of course, Jinjoo is a perfect victim who has never done anything wrong, and even if she did it’s ok because her trauma justifies her behaviour.
Never have i said that i dislike Doyeon i have said that she's a bitch and an asshole and here's why i said it and i know you read why from my previous comments,Doyeon should have not fucked Jinjoo,even if Doyeon started having same sex dreams and attractions she was wrong to put that onto Jinjoo,Jinjoo was in an emotional,mental and physical bad state and she felt lost and abandoned and because of that ofcourse she would go into survival mode and do and say whatever it takes to make it through another day to be safe and not alone,so okay yeah she used her body and ok yeah she might have manipulated Doyeon a bit but Doyeon still opened the door for all that,that stupid ass should have talked to Jinjoo just like Jinjoo tried to talk to her about it when she sat Doyeon down and ask her if she like women or is it that she likes her.
Jinjoo was the one who tried talking about things more than Doyeon had tried,all Doyeon ever wanted was sex not to talk but sex then got all made saying she hates the fact that sex was on her mind all the time and as she fucked Jinjoo in the kitchen she was the one who asked Jinjoo if she thought about what happened that night a lot too and ofcourse Jinjoo said yes,that woman was just doing dishes and that asshole came home and fucked her without asking permission as if Jinjoo was her woman,look fact is Jinjoo was there in that house for safety and Doyeon made the whole thing about her desires do you even get that.....geez come on now......let me break it down a bit more for you in a scenario,woman goes to the police for help because her husband abuses her and then the police says i can help you and along the process of doing so the police fucks the woman then wants her to fall in love with him just cause he helped her out so what she does is do whatever he days because he's the safer choice or so she thinks until he realises she's using him and he gets all crazy on her...sighsss Doyeon is WRONG SO DARN WRONG man she is.
I said Doyeon needs to accept that she isn't a good person as much as she always thought she is and then she can work om herself i even said that in one of my comments and yes i feel like Jinjoo needs understanding because her whole life has been shitty while Doyeon has choices,she has opportunities while Jinjoo only knows how to be a loyal wife since out of highschool,Jinjoo said she never shinned as much as Doyeon at her age which ment she didn't live the life she should have which means she has a lot of regret.
I’m not sure why Doyeon being young and really being an excellent student by working very very hard (every character has confirmed this) means that she receives less empathy from you. I’m sure she has scholarships to go to vet school because she is literally their number 1 student academically, the only thing her adoptive parents help her with is housing and groceries, which is a huge fucking help but she didn’t have that help most of her life anyway and she’s always been an excellent student and hard worker. She isn’t a cop though, why are you holding her to the same standards as a cop? Once again, the minute she caught on feelings the only ethical thing she could have done was to kick Jinjoo out. And that would have been fine. Why? Because once again, Jinjoo is a 40 year old woman and not a teenager. She had other options. She was not trapped. Doyeon, the 24 year old college student (22 actually) was not her only option. I don’t know why Doyeon having choices and opportunities ( largely because of her hard work, would her adoptive parents chosen her if she was not an excellent student?) means that she has to be the perfect saviour to Jinjoo or be subservient to her. As if she is obligated to give some of her opportunities and freedom to her because she is young and has choices. That seems resentful and sad. Once again, Jinjoo still has choices to her because she isn’t a teenage child. She is a grown ass woman. Tell me the ch where Doyeon comes home and just does weird stuff to Jinjoo because Jinjoo did that weird terrible dominating stuff to Doyeon in ch 20 but in your eyes that was justified because Jinjoo is a helpless teenager with no other place to go and she can use this 22 year old for sex and that’s ok, OH WAIT, SHE ISNT, SHE IS A 40 YEAR OLD WOMAN. WHO HAS OPTIONS.
I can see you are all about defending Doyeon,guess you're the type to defend someone if they are your friend even if they did something wrong and i used the police reference because currently it's an actual case load i'm reviewing of which the policeman will have to pay dearly for,you know what,i feel like you so want to defend Doyeon about her age and talk about Jinjoo's age that you and even others clearly forgot that Jinjoo got married straight out of highschool,you never met a girl who lived as a married woman to an older guy i bet....i'll tell you,there's a woman in a domestic case that went unreported for many years,as a young girl of 14yrs her parents married her off to a 24yr old guy which is their cultural way,in an old pic that girl was seriously beautiful but when the case was finally picked up her beauty was gone,her face had many cuts and her body bruised and battered,when questioned they way she spoke it was as if her understanding and knowledge was not equal to her age but way below,fact us all she learnt is what her husband put in her head so when you say Jinjoo is a 40yr old and has or had OPTIONS,clearly you never dealt with a person like Jinjoo's character,Doyeon's problem is that she doesn't know how to form real connections with people and expect people to love her,she thinks just cause she does things for people warrants that they love while she doesn't allow anyone to truely know her because she keeps doing what she wants in her own way them gets mad if she doesn't get her way.
I bet Jinjoo eventually will create space between herself and Doyeon and try to figure out herself and who and what she wants,Jinjoo is introverted yet tries and Doyeon is extroverted and has a temper,selfish,needy and attention seeking,what did she think A FUCK or fucking Jinjoo would make Chanyang vanish or the fact that she's married,that asshole husband maynot just walk away and give his wife to Doyeon after 20yrs so yeah Doyeon is dululu for sure.
Guys, shit is way more complex than Doyeon taking advantage of the fact that Jinjoo is dependent on her. Jinjoo starts making weird demands starting from ch 8 to her to never leave her alone again. And then Doyeon kisses her mid argument annd that is FUCKED UP AND WRONG and then Jinjoo rejects that shit and then Doyeon puts distance annd respects that and then in ch 12 Jinjoo ASKS DOYEON TO SLEEP IN THE SAME BED????? WHY??????????? WHYYYYYYYYYYYY?????? Jinjoo is not a helpless teenager, she is a 40 year old woman who has had jobs before. There are women’s shelters she can look into to go there. She is devout and active in the church community, why not ask for help there?????? This 24 year old college student could not have been her only option.