Wtf? Are y'all ok??? Are you ok??? Did y'all press charges and get the cops involved?
are you ok?! girl, y'all need help, i can relate to you cause that happened between my parents I also ended up getting hit but everything will settle down in the end.
U should reach out for help I'm dead serious rn. Let a relative know what ur going through. If it's impossible, if u have a therapist, tell them. If you're still a school student u can even tell a trusted school teacher or the school counsellor. U have younger siblings yk even if u move out of the house first, ur siblings and mom will have to go through this for longer. The best option u have rn is to get any help u can. Ur mom's boyfriend gotta go. Be safe, take care of urself. Don't rage at him, you'll get hurt in the process
Hii Wanda!!! My relatives don't like my mother and siblings (The only time they ever call us is when they need my mom to do something for them!) So they're not an option, and will never be because I hate them with all my guts and I'd rather die than live in such a filthy home with them.
I'm just a teen, so moving out isn't an option and even if it was, I wouldn't. Because of my younger siblings. School counselor also isn't an option because they'll either tell my mom everything I tell them (their required too) and or CPS will get involved. I don't want to go through that!
I also think he has to go, but for some reason my mom is very attached to him even though he does no good, isn't that crazy? They made up again apparently already.
Hii!! I'm perfectly fine, I didn't get hurt (lmao this time). I know we need help, but what exactly is a teenage girl going to do in a situation like this?
They've already settled down though and apparently made up though!!
Hiii!! We're fine here, the cops were called. But I'm in a city where crime rates are very high and often if the cops don't think it's serious enough, they just won't come (This has already happened three times before and we've called the cops but they never come), so no charges were pressed and probably won't be!!!
I hope ur ok sweetheart. Hope you'll never have to go through that again. But if it does happen again, don't get involved in the fights and don't focus too much on this. If there's nothing u can do about it, u shouldn't ruin ur mental health over this. Sharing this with ur friends will help u relieve alot of stress, even though ik it's kinda hard to open up and talk about it irl. Even venting on the internet like u did today will help u but if it gets hard for u, u really should have a private talk with ur mom and tell her what you're feeling and how these things are affecting u. U can't change ur family situation without the adults changing.
Anyways take care. I hope everything gets better for u♡ don't ruin ur mental health over this. life gets better darling
Hiii again, Wanda!!! You're very kind, I'd thought I'd say that much. The two friends I do have know a little about my situation, but as y'know, it's hard to talk about stuff like this.
I don't think my mental health is being ruined over this or anything, this has happened before. It's nothing I've cried about or whatever. But seriously, thank you for your very kind words!!!
That's good
Hi guys, I just thought I'd let someone know what's going on at home since I don't have any friends to tell!
So my momma has a boyfriend, I don't know his real name, so we call him Yodie. He doesn't pay rent and he often makes her really pissed. But that's very unrelated to what's happening now.
So, from what I know. Yodie got mad that my younger brother was sleeping with my mother, which started a small argument. But it seems they had things to get off their chest ( Cheating, gang activitys, not enough weed, sex, me and my siblings, dinner, who pays rent, and things of that nature.) which ended up in a fight. Like an actual fight.
My mom (being a barely 5'3 woman, of course couldn't hold her own in the fight in a nearly 6'7 adult black man) was getting her shit handed to her. I was trying to be responsible, telling one of my siblings to call the cops, but my younger sister slipped past and hit him with the fan.
And a lot of other things went down (Yodie trying to fight my brother, and me holding my own siblings back, the kitchen got ruined). So yeah, I'm pretty sure my life is fucked!!!