"Rather than focusing on the results, people should comment on a child's progress instead, because otherwise they'll be unhealthily obsessed with the result"
THIS ISNT THE EXACT LINE DEBORAH SAID AB HENRIQUE BUT it spoke to me. How it's soo common parents would only seem satisfied with a good result, (sometimes not even satisfied) without even thinking about how stressful it was for the child to have that pressure.
Deborah suffered under that pressure for years, and I'm happy seeing how she's treating her younger brother.
"Rather than focusing on the results, people should comment on a child's progress instead, because otherwise they'll be unhealthily obsessed with the result"
THIS ISNT THE EXACT LINE DEBORAH SAID AB HENRIQUE BUT it spoke to me. How it's soo common parents would only seem satisfied with a good result, (sometimes not even satisfied) without even thinking about how stressful it was for the child to have that pressure.
Deborah suffered under that pressure for years, and I'm happy seeing how she's treating her younger brother.