
You and I both, I especially hate the "you will marry me because I said so" plot and the worst is when they are like "OK". There is literally nothing that can coerce me into getting married with someone, even if I am so poor I have to eat dirt or I have to fight for a child's custody you better believe I am not going to take the easy way out and give in.

you really do understand me.. well honestly i have a big ego, and never had much faith in love- or onyone for that matter- either .. i learnt the hard way , i don't know whether you know the chinese drama the journey of flower , but for me qien gu acts as a reminder , someone i'll never become , maybe they're many who admire that innocent love of hers but for me she was just a disappointment , she was strong to begin with but then she had to give up her power and authority as a Demon god for someone who won't even admit that he cares for her , utterly stupid !!!! the main point is Even if nobody in this world love you, you have to love yourself , rather i strayed off topic .. Didn't i !

Lol no the initial topic was to love oneself although I meant physically but yeah and you are right there is nothing natural in those sorts of loves. I don't like to say I will never do something but I hope I'm not blind or desperate enough to be begging for the crumbs of someone's love. It honestly turns me way off when the male mc approaches the lady forcibly especially when she looks scared or cries. I find it much more romantic when the man declares he won't touch the girl until she wants him to

it's not that i don't like it when the male approaches her forcibly .. i just don't like the weak ones , those who just trimble and go with the flow . in these situctions you gotta have self confidence, voice your thoughts and take control , i don't like it when they wait for the guy to even just kiss ,if you're already intoxicated with desire damn push him and kiss him .. even better top him , but i still yet to find someone like me in manga
For all her insistence that he teaches her she should have been learning to please herself, would have saved her a lot of hardship. Just saying