Not to invalidate survivors and people who are uncomfortable with whats happening-- Yiyoungs experience is not rape.
He's been literally fantasizing about this kind of situation for their entire relationship. The writing here is purposefully being vague, with a lot of "oh no, please stop" but I promise you this isn't a typical BL/Yaoi SA scene.
Yiyoung is having a great time, but Kang is going to feel bad about it after *because* Yiyoung was saying "omg no don't do it"
Yiyoung is a kinky little freak, he likes dub con
this is so odd to me, cuz to my knowledge they’ve never discussed this w each other (lmk if i’m wrong) which would classify this as rape. just bc u fantasize smth, unless it’s communicated to ur partner, it’s unconsensual
More people would be convinced if we get clarification in the next chapters about Yiyoung's POV, or if they talked about this prior, etc. I do agree that it is a bit uncomfortable to not hear his actual consent before this. But even if it's still rapey, I'm honestly not surprised. We get "jealous sex" all the time. I suggest people to STOP READING if they can't handle this in a fictional BL story.
Uuhhh...fatasies and reality are two different things, you know that right??? CONSENT IS NOT A MATTER YOU CAN BRUSH OFF..
Yiyoung never mentioned it to Kang before.. (=・﹏・=)
I am part of the BDSM community, there's a type of play called CNC, this would enter in that, but you need to have a previous conversation with established boundaries, safe words and consent. None of this is happening here, there has not been a previous conversation where they agreed to this type of play. (To add to this, there is no safe play in BDSM, you can just make it safer).
This is rape, please note that the seme is forcing the uke due to his jealousy. This is something that happens a lot in real life in abusive relationships.
The only reason why the uke is enjoying it like this is because the author's depiction and preferences. BL has a history of being really problematic on rape sequences even selling them as "romantic".
Please understand that this is not okay, and it only "works" because it is fiction.
Jeez stfu with all this yapping girl 99% of yaoi shii have rape plot and i am sure you already know that and guess what you would've stopped reading this typa shiit if you really cared but y'all just love to make a scene with your yapping and honestly rape leaves trauma on the victims not let them enjoy it
And as per the raws yiyoung loved the sex so how tf is it rape bruh like make it makes sense, some people have a kink called angry or possesive sex and that's what it is!
You clearly don't understand anything about kink and consent! Why are you so triggered from this?
I have been reading BL for decades, so I know and I have read a lot of problematic stuff, understanding that it is fiction, and being aware of that SA is shown as something almost romantic or "okay" because at the end they agree to it or they like it... As shown in the raws.
I just like to bring awareness, as there is a lot of young people in this page who do not understand and think that a situation like this is okay in real life. If you are triggered by it, well you could check yourself why is that! And stop being rude just because you don't agree with someone! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
If someone is triggered then it's you and yapping all this shit when you can just stop reading if you find something problematic,but guess what you just love to act moral police here and what awareness lmao?you can see in the comments just how many people are into this type of shii so stop pushing your so called morality onto others and let them enjoy go and take some water and rest cause it clearly shows how worked up you're over this
This is not about morality. Anyone can read whatever they like, and they can enjoy it or not is up to them. Also, I will not judge people for enjoying a certain type of media or scenarios. However, I find important to clarify in some situations when people don't realize that a situation wouldn't be okay in real life and it only works, specially for young people. I do this as I enjoy sharing real knowledge about kink and BDSM so people can be safer out there. Again, why does that bother you? You can enjoy the title, but it is important to be able to recognize when a situation presented wouldn't be okay in real life! That's it! Hope that you are safe out there ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I want y’all who are saying this isn’t rape to read this: Survivors see your comments too. You defending rape and invalidating YiYoung’s experience, can trigger and invalidate survivors who’ve had similar experiences. Do better and THINK before you post
But alas, it’s yet another week featuring people who say this wasn’t rape because there were moments where YiYoung was enjoying himself. If your partner continues after you’ve said no once, let alone MULTIPLE TIMES it’s rape