PREEEEEEEAAAAAACH!
100% THISSSSSSSS. Like girl where is your head at this is not a situation you should be inserting yourself in, just support your bf omg
For real ╥﹏╥ girl what was the plan? Say “your brother isn’t nice” and expect your bf says “oh my, I had never considered that before, let’s have a picnic and pretend I don’t have years trauma”? (￣∇￣") like, we know she’s has good intentions, but she also went behind husband back on this instead of trying to work it out with her bf first u,u
agreed. This is a massive breach of trust, and shows him that he can't rely on her to have his back, especially since in this situation he's 100% valid for thinking and feeling the way he does. His reaction, wanting to break up with her over this makes complete sense to me.
yeah :') she went about this the wrong way u.u also, how can you hear the brother say "oh yeah, I know he has a complex bc how everyone treats him bc of me... but I don't care, instead, I went after the girl he likes to show him he's a loser" and just side with him??? it doesn't make sense hahajja
(props to you friend. my spellcheck went crazy with me in my previous comment and you still understood me XD )
she means well, but she's literally saying "your brother feels bad about continuously and intentionally hurting you. He's knowingly took all your parents love and started going out with the girl you loved, and rubbed your face in it, but he is just like that, he can't help it. So you need to hear him out, even though you're the one who was hurt all the time. Because your bro validates that i'm a nice girl, so he's a nice guy too. So even though he's never apologised or been open with you, you should take the initiative to make amends"