Yes, that's the principle, but people sometimes forget when they're not used to it.
I think it's a huge turn off when I'm with someone that keep asking me to stop when they don't mean it. I will always take it seriously even when it's obvious they're feeling good because pleasure is not equal to consent.
yeah exactly. like the dude was 100% right to stop, because he cares about consent and the safety of his partner. so obviously it'd be confusing when the dude tells him he shouldn't have stopped, and then the next time he switches things on him, and he actually should've stopped. like....it's the same word buddy, he can't read your mind in the middle of sex. you need to be more specific. either stop using that word when you don't mean it or use a safeword ¯_(ツ)_/¯
ppl just need to figure out how sex works for them in a healthy way. safewords can be used for anything and everything, more ppl should do it if it works for them.
honestly!!! like why are you saying stop if you want to continue ┗( T﹏T )┛
use a safeword! then you know stop doesn't mean to stop, and if he actually wants you to stop he'll use the safeword! it's not like safewords are only meant for hardcore bdsm lol like live your life! be happy :3 make sex less confusing~~