A debate ive been havin in my brain

Okay so like i just read the update for this today as well as ‘ Kimi o Wasureru Koi ga Shitai’ just now and like im a little confused about the hate about the ml (from Kimi o Wasureru Koi ga Shitai). Like i feel like both ml’s has ther pros and cons but like ultimately i feel like i still prefer the ml from ‘ Kimi o Wasureru Koi ga Shitai’ more. I dont feel offended or upset wen reading about his character but he gets so much hate to the point i feel like its a little much. (Maybe its just me) The ml from this manga has always been the way he is and like the mc seemed like the only one putting in the effort. (Its been a while since i read this one so maybe im wrong, let me know if i missed something) like i get the tsundere trope and hes not good at showing emotions but like sometimes i feel like hes just taking advantage of the mc’s feelings like he knows shes gonna love him no matter wat. Kinda reminds me a bit about wolf girl and black prince but yea. If both ml’s wer real people id dislike this ml more (again maybe its just me). Maybe its just about preference and maybe thers so many hate comments on Kimi o Wasureru Koi ga Shitai in comparison to this one because thers just different people reading the two but if anyones read both let me know wat u think. I feel like the people in this comment section is nicer and more understanding of the characters which is interesting. The rating for Kimi o Wasureru Koi ga Shitai being a 8.6 and pink and habanero just doesnt sit with me well.