Y'all are acting like she's the only one who should be taking accountability (WHICH IN REALITY SHE SHOULDN'T BECAUSE THIS IS WRITTEN SO BADLY TO MAKE YALL SIDE WITH THE GAY COUPLE AND HATW ON THE ONLY FEMALE CHARACTER) like why is nobody talking about how the uke KNEW she was his sister, got into a relationship with her (even if he disclosed his past with her brother, like is it not fucking scummy ?) And then MARRIED HER, Knowing he liked her brother, got divorced and sent her a pic of her brother AFTER THE DIVORCE TO STIR SHIT BETWEEN THEM, And it's implied that the brother and uke slept together while he was still married. How is she still a problem when she is a passive character while that nasty sex fiend is doing crazy background homewrecking ????????? Let's talk about it lmfao.
internalized mysogyny is quite common in BLs due to 99% of the writers beings women. i tend to avoid any BL that villainize female characters just because she's "cockblocking" the couple. it's a cheap subplot made to hate on women. what's worse is that the readers being 90% females also cater toward this hatred. it's kinda funny and ironic ngl. it should be studied further.
one manhwa that did a great job at portraying a female character being betrayed is "A Strange Joke". she had every right to be angry
It's smut. I ain't reading it for the plot
this comment isn't targeting you for jerking off to drawings. it's for the people swearing up and down its the woman's fault. Move along
Im really trying to understand the logic of some of the readers like I fully expected some of them to be minors still incapable of empathy or logical thinking but some of the comments are made by adults. I'm genuinely confused why the actions of both male MCs are brushed under the rug, wheares she gets all the blame T__T
I get what you're saying and I do feel for the sister but still getting in to a relationship with someone who basically told you that they're still stuck up on their ex isn't smart. It feels like the author is trying to make us dislike her for her delusions which is still wild because her own brother still decided to 1. Abandon his lover whenever they argued. Then 2. Consent to an affair with his sister's husband and act like he can't believe that she's so disgusted by them.
Some of the commentors are only blaming her because of her mindset "I can fix him, if he's with me long enough he'll forget all about my brother." Which is how she comes off. I think the author just wanted to have a messy book and that's why the sister is written like this
exactly !!!!!!! This is called bad writing! its when you make characters do actions that dont make sense then blaming them for those actions.
It's understandable why you're upset at this but the author is seemingly treating their characters like actual people. Cause if someone told you they got with a gay person because they thought they could "fix" them and make them love them. You'd look at them sideways . From the view of commentors and the author she knew he didn't love her but still placed herself in a predicament to get hurt. I do agree with you on the topic of women characters only being brought in to be used in a villainous spot, it's dumb and heavily misogynistic.
I do kinda blame the seme though cause why would you consistently leave someone after an argument who you claim to love without reaching out to them cause them reaching out to you makes you feel loved? The uke is scummy for getting with the sister but overall if the seme could communicate better it seems none of this would happen but this is just a bunch of toxic people stuffed into a burrito.
Cause I don't know how to delete comments I'm taking this back. Just read some other ones and yeah everyone's to blame but the uke low-key crazy as hell
Yeah. It's the delusion not the fact she's female, though that vibe is there as well. The fact she KNOWS he's in love w/ her brother, and that he is gay. Like, ok girl.
The whole "I can fix him" thing gave off heavy homophobic vibes which wasn't necessary because girl knew her brother was gay so why would she try to fix a gay man in the first place??
You guys are talking in circles and dismissing my entire point. The fact that she know he's in love with the brother and still marries him is bad writing in itself. It's the author you should be saying "Ok girl" to. Not the character who was made to be put in such a position. The uke did a whole lot worse than her and she gets 90% of the hate. I'm genuinely wondering how some of you are so out of touch.
I feel like me and you are getting close to an understanding. Like I keep saying, the sister being put in a predicament where she could get hurt, is a fault of the author in itself. In real life, no woman would marry a man who loves another woman, let alone a man, let alone HER BROTHER. If a guy she was planning to marry said that to her she would immediately but turned off of marrying him. That's the realistic version. That's what actual people would do. The author could've been smart about it and had the exact same plot point WITHOUT THE SISTER KNOWING THAT HES WITH HER BROTHER. that's the more realistic option which makes both the brother and the sister victims of that nasty ogre.
Hun, you have to realize that Authors write characters that reflect actual people and their behaviors and in fandom culture or even simple book reading habits. A character comes to life and while the Author is the creator, when judging a story the character is criticized, she did do something stupid and a lot of people aren't kind to those who willfully put themselves in tight places so they focus on her. Even though the uke could've denied the marriage and got on with it as well, it's shocking to know that she's that delusional to go for someone who told her "I'm not for you." In a way. So it's not bad writing just an unfortunate story
Lol you haven't deflected a single one of my claims. You have all this talk about "treating character like actual people" "characters reflects actual people" but you don't actually have a grasp on what a real person is actually like. REAL PEOPLE ARENT DELUSIONAL TO THE POINT OF MARRYING IMPULSIVELY LMFAO "the uke should've denied the marriage" also the uke shouldn't have dated the sister. Also the uke shouldn't have cheated on his wife. Also the uke shouldn't have stirred trouble between siblings. Also the uke shouldn't have slept with the brother again after the divorce. And so on ..! But you only care about what the woman shouldn't have done. Not arguing with you anymore you are clearly not suited for this kind of debate because you don't have the tools to have it. xx
When did I say what you just so pointedly pointed out? I never said I solely focused on her? You were talking about how women were presented to be the side chick that destroys everything and that is being misogynistic. U lost my point entirely. Look. She is the one who pursued him and mad him marry her KNOWING he's gay.....after he's turned her down. As for his part, in accepting her to get to her brother then he's an asshole too. But he literally TOLD her he's gay for her bro. So I wasn't focused on him. Cuz I was addressing how women were being thrown in there as fish bait.
bookie you are talking abt the plot. im talking about the authors lack of writing skills. we arent on the same page. Clock it
The gag is author villainizing a female character and y'all falling for it. Like you losers can't even distinguish bad writing to save your lives. This manhwa is basically a porno with plot