I don’t think it’s too much about Sky’s trauma right now, but more about him being manipulated and schemed by Cirrus at the time during Ferris wheel stuff/ amusement park.
Cirrus made him watch Chan and Ri-in together on purpose, to hurt Sky and get him to move on I believe. At the time, Sky didn’t know. Until now.
That’s why he confronted Cirrus (I believe), and got more mad when Cirrus continued to lie instead of just coming clean. He felt betrayed.
Cirrus’s consequences finally caught up to him. Unfortunately wrong timing, really. I feel bad for both. I do think Sky was too harsh with his words, he should not have brought in Cirrus’s trauma, insensitive.
But I can also see Sky is very hurt that his own boyfriend continues to lie to him.
2) Forgot to mention. They were also not on good terms back then, so I feel like the cirrus that has developed right now doesn’t deserve all this pain. But his consequences came.
When I say wrong timing, Cirrus just didn’t come clean on time before moving further into a relationship. And the consequences caught up at the wrong time.
yea i get that like i truly do! and i knew this was gonna come back at cirrus but the way skylar threw all that at his face??? and this isn't just oh i saw my parents arguing while growing up kinda trauma- cirrus has been dragged through SHIT since he was a CHILD.
and yet skylar thinks he has the right to open into that trauma? saying he doesn't know what love is because he's never been loved? not only does that dig up cirrus childhood, from the neglect of his parents to the false hope of love that he thought he'd gained from another adult in his life- only to be exposed to perversion and exploitation- but he also belittles cirrus' emotions and feelings... as if cirrus has no right to love because he himself never recieved it-- and if thats not what skylar was implying then WHY BLAME CIRRUS ON NEVER BEING LOVED, AS IF A CHILD HAS CONTROL OVER THAT?!
. cause at the end of the day cirrus has been putting in all the work in their relationship because of how much skylar distances himself. hell, i don't even think CIRRUS knows that slylar (might????) have feeling for him. because he pushes cirrus away at every chance, he chooses chan-il at every chance, he takes every chance he gets to shit on cirrus or choose when actions and words are ok or not... and yea again i get it skylar has trauma but if cirrus was ok with being beat up, told in his face that he was a second choice by yet ANOTHER person whom he loves, bared all his seceets and feelings towards slylar then shouldn't he be allowed SOME grace??
and that's not at all saying that skylar shouldn't break up with him! like ok you wanna break up? cool!! pop off queen! but how about we NOT speak on matters that skylar will NEVER have any idea on how it feels.
“WHY BLAME CIRRUS ON NEVER BEING LOVED, AS IF A CHILD HAS CONTROL OVER THAT?!“
And I think that’s why I don’t think Skylar meant what he said. He has bad anger issues, tired of being hurt, so he hurts another. This is a cycle clearly.
What you said makes sense and valid, it’s alright to be angry. I also talked about the part where Cirrus felt like a second choice or was told that.
Unfortunately there’s two sides to fandoms, babying the characters a lot, then arguing with each other about who keeps babying the characters.
Like it’s okay to baby, it’s not okay to justify or undermine what Sky said.
yea i agree with that, i dont intend to baby cirrus and i genuinely do thin he deserves karma for his action towards his manipulations BUT i would and will never defend someone who throws another persons trauma as "pay back" especially a trauma so deep and scarring as cirrus'!!
sorry you tortured yourself in reading my coke rant tho i just had to get that off my chest cause whew skylar has been on thin ice with me for awhile
Nah it’s fine. It feels nice to see someone else somewhat defending cirrus besides me lmao.
when i read u saying cycle, i think i can see an ending where, if this is gonna be a happy ending i think they need a break from each other cause u are right this is a cycle and an unhealthy one so i think theyre gonna separate and maybe meet a couple years later idk they both clearly have problems and theyre hurting each other, atp i would rather they separate and solve their own shit at their own space
I just hope it’s not like: young lovers to break up arc to meeting each other when older, but realize they both have other partners.
yes i agree, hopefully they heal first or something and meet w their healthy version of themselves or we gonna go thru w this and get a lot of freakin angst
We don’t deserve these pain.
ok before i start lemme preface this by saying yea skylar has reason to be mad, and yea skylar is traumatized himself... I KNOW