I think I’m confused. Why would Skylar hold a grudge about Cirrus manipulating in the past when Skylar himself accepted Cirrus’s apology? Cirrus had said he’s sorry for everything he did and when he had hurt Skylar.
I think it’s more about Cirrus hiding something, I think Chan-il told him about Cirrus introducing him to Ri-in?
I think the fat guy said something too, I forgot, that made Sky feel doubtful. I think the fat guy told him about some stuff that didn’t come to light to Sky, about the wallet situation, feeding Sky’s anxiety.
Cirrus is at fault, but he’s not doing the manipulation anymore, or not as much as before anyways. He doesn’t need more stress on top. Same with Sky. Sky isn’t the only one wrong.
Defending Skylar here isn’t right, but the big slander isn’t right either, balance. If we can wrong one, we can wrong another, especially because both here are in the wrong.
I think it’s just really shitty to bring in someone’s trauma into a fight. That is all. I’m not making Sky out to be the evil person, he isn’t. I do hope they make up.
Skylar definitely doesn’t deserve praise for saying the things he said to Cirrus, so that is why a lot are reacting harshly to his words + the fact he knows about Cirrus’s trauma. I mean a lot of Skylar defenders (not the normal sky defenders but the crazy ones) or just weird fans were going cuckoo during the hallway fight, when Cirrus unintentionally triggered Sky’s trauma.
hello again! sorry for replying so late i had to move out but here i am.
so as u know cirrus did apologize for everything he did in the past, and skylar forgave him, but here we can see that skylar is fr hurt and don’t forgive cirrus no more. like yeah he forgave him so many times but because of skylar’s trust issues and fear of love, he don’t forgive him right here. he’s hurt as hell and thinks that cirrus is playing with him, he’s literally crying saying « how can u know how to love when you’ve never been loved » imo he thinks cirrus don’t actually like him.
and yes it’s also about cirrus’ lies about riin and chanil. like, skylar wanted to believe cirrus and asked him for the real answer, but he was deceived by cirrus once again who lied ONCE AGAIN. so imo he’s crying bc he just really thinks he’s being played
and yeah the fat guy said smth which increased skylar’s anxiety but he still forgave cirrus and believed him over the fat guy.
and no no i didn’t mean that cirrus still manipulates skylar, but he sure did in the past. and everything’s coming out now.
i’m not saying skylar is right not at all, like i said in my post, they’re both at fault here. but what i wanted to mean is that every member of this damn community likes to babysit cirrus. by saying he don’t deserve any of this bc of his trauma, skylar don’t deserve him, skylar is a total scumbag for doing this etc etc. like yes skylar’s words are insanely hurtful but it was the goal. i get skylar and i understand his actions, tho, it would have been WAYYY better if he tried to communicate with cirrus, but yeah he wanted to hurt cirrus real bad. skylar isn’t right and cirrus isn’t too. like just stop saying things like « skylar what a bitch he made cirrus cry » like ????? pleaseee tell me u get what i mean
imo they’re also wrong, both of em, troughout the whole story. neither of em has been right since the beginning of the story so
and again no im not saying his actions is a consequences of his trauma but he’s acting like this because he just thinks he’s being played. if we talk about the trauma then skylar’s actions are justified thanks to his trust issues, and cirrus’ ones are because of his bpd and fear abandonment ( which is the same )
hope u understand my pov !!
Yeah I found out the full context. Thank you so much for explaining though! It makes sense. It’s just Cirrus’s consequences catching up at the wrong time. Cirrus has changed a lot for the good right now, he’s better than before. But the consequences hadn’t got to him before so now it’s coming :(.
I would never insult Skylar with “bitch” or Cirrus, maybe playfully like “two idiots” or “two dumb asses”, but nothing hateful. Love these two
OMG SKYLAR NO when he started sobbing in front cirrus i’m sorry it’s so sad wtf my baby
also can we NOT insult skylar ? like my boy was manipulated so many times we can clearly see he’s hurt like hell. cirrus is so at fault here. i agree that skylar shouldn’t have said these hurtful words about cirrus’ past but i get him so much he just wanted to be mean to cirrus, he was so so hurt. they’re both at fault here let’s not forget what cirrus have done to skylar please. stop saying « i can’t defend u skylar no more » like bitch did we read the same story??? it’s not about who’s the meanest, they’re both lacking in communication and need time to forgive each other.